Just after having sex with her the first time: The very next morning, and very nice. Read this if you want to know why.Â
After having sex with her twice on two separate occasions: 0-2 times per week is ideal. Three times per week is not ideal and is really pushing it. More than three times per week is very bad and is a boyfriend behavior. Â
After she dumps you: Six months or longer is ideal, and the longer, the better. Four months is the absolute minimum.Â
After she ignores two contacts from you in a row on two separate occasions (texts, social media messages, whatever): If youâve never had sex with her or only had sex with her once, sheâs gone forever. Donât bother texting her again and move on to other women. If you had sex with her at least twice, consider yourself dumped, so itâs the same rules as above (six months).Â
After a soft next (remember that soft nexting only applies to women youâve had sex with at least twice): usually 48 hours to seven days. You also need to ignore all contact she makes with you during the soft nexting period. Stay strong and donât fuck this up! Read this for more information.Â
After a hard next: Never. Hard nexts are permanent. Move on to other women.Â
After you leave town and youâll be gone for more than a week: If sheâs an MLTR, once a week. If sheâs an FB, once every other week.Â