How to Go Out By Yourself at Night -
The Final Month
You've made it to the beginning of the end of our program "How to Go Out Alone to Bars".
I really want you to finish the job.
Remember, there's 2 types of guys -
- Guys that can go out and Get Laid
- Guys that can't
You are on your way to group 1.
If you weren't happy with your performance in Week 8, please go back and get the job done right.
It's a major step forward to be able to go out by yourself and walk up to groups of people and get them talking by saying -
Hey guys I'm new around here...
On a scale of 1-10 how much do you like living in [the city]?
If you can walk up to a group of people and ask that question and hold your own in a 3 or 4 minutes conversation, you have better social skills (and social freedom anyway) than most guys.
Just remember -
You probably already have decent social skills.
It's just tucked under your anxiety.
Let's bring it out.
Week 9 - Be Strong, Stay Strong
(14 Drills)
If you didn't go out 3 nights and complete ALL the requirements in Week 8 - go back and do that.
Week 8 is very proactive and a turning point.
You need to do it correctly.
For at least 3 nights this week, you are to go out and do the following -
- Walk up to 5 girls and tap ('cheers') your glass against a girl's glass and say "Cutie", smile and leave. (5)
(if you don't want to buy a drink, just pick up a glass that is sitting around) - Walk up to 3 girls who are texting on their phone and tell them "No texting. I work here and we don't allow texting anymore." (example), wait for their response and leave. (3)
- Walk up to 5 girls and ask them the question from Week 8, "Hey guys, I'm new around here... On a scale of 1-10, how much do you like living in [the city]?" do your best to have a 2-3 minute conversation after. (5)
- Walk up to a girl and tell her, "It's crazy, you look just like my sister/ex-girlfriend" (or whatever you want to say) and get her to take a picture with you. (1)
Creeper Challenge: Ask a group of girls if they do kegels and if they really work to make their pussy tighter.
(chances are - the girl will have no idea what you are talking about)
Week 10 - Lock and Engage
(15 Drills)
If you didn't go out 3 nights and complete ALL the requirements in Week 9 - go back and do that.
For at least 3 nights this week, you are to go out and do the following -
- Walk up to a group of girls who are seated, ask them if they are ready to order dinner and leave. (1)
- Walk past 5 girls and tell them "I love you... I love you...", so they look at you, smile and leave. (5)
(like in this video) - Walk up to 5 girls you aren't interested in and tell them "You are sexy", introduce yourself/ask their name, shake their hand and leave. (5)
(if you want to continue to talk to her - by all means, do so) - Walk up to 3 girls and ask them to try and touch their elbows behind their back. (3)
(this motion makes the girl stick her chest outward, most think it's funny that you tricked them into doing that) - Walk up to a group of girls and tell them that you want to make your friend jealous for not coming out with you and take a selfie with the whole group. (1)
Creeper Challenge: Walk up to a girl and tell her that you just got some pussy and tell her to smell your hands.
Week 11 - Talk to Me Sweetie
(11 Drills)
If you didn't go out 3 nights and complete ALL the requirements in Week 10 - go back and do that.
This week will be a bit different.
All of the drills involve motioning girls to come over and talk to you.
I suggest leaning up against the bar while doing these or even sitting on a bar stool, but it doesn't really matter.
In the future, ideally, you will be able to get solid eye contact (and a smile) before waving the girls to come over and talk to you.
Don't worry about that right now.
We just want you to get comfortable with commanding girls to break off from their friends to talk to you for a few minutes.
For whatever reason, getting girls to walk over to you sets up a noticeably different dynamic (even though you are technically making the 'first move').
Maybe it's just a coincidence but just about every guy I know that can go out and Get Laid has told me they use some sort of "come talk to me" technique.
For at least 3 nights this week, you are to go out and do the following -
- Wave 5 girls over to you and tell them they are attractive, introduce yourself and say "nice meeting you." (3)
(you can continue to make small talk with them if you want or you can walk off) - Wave 5 girls over to you and tell them that you wanted to tell them that they are the cutest girl in their group but didn't want to offend their friends, introduce yourself and say "nice meeting you." (3)
(you can continue to make small talk with them if you want or you can walk off) - Wave 3 groups of girls over to you and them they are attractive, introduce yourself say "nice meeting you." (3)
(you can continue to make small talk with them if you want or you can walk off) - Wave 1 girl over to you and tell her that she is attractive, introduce yourself and ask her to buy you a drink. (1)
(you can continue to make small talk with them if you want or you can walk off) - Wave 1 girl over to you and give her a hug. (1)
You are free to 'Introduce Yourself' in any fashion you like.
Ideally, it should be you stating your name (before asking her name) and a firm handshake.
Creeper Challenge: Wave a girl over to you, introduce yourself and tell her "it's too loud right here" and try to take her out of the bar right away. (example at 2:00)
Week 12 - Introduce Yourself Like a Man
(16 Drills)
If you didn't go out 3 nights and complete ALL the requirements in Week 11 - go back and do that.
If you've been following the program, as written, you've come a long way.
The drills you are going to do this week, you could not have done on Week 1.
These drills are basically exactly how you approach girls.
The only difference is you are going to bail early.
(if you want)
Otherwise, there is no difference whatsoever.
If you can do these - you can approach women at bars - by yourself.
The next phase is developing Killer Instinct and working on the EXACT techniques that we show in this discussion (especially #10).
Let's get these done first.
For at least 3 nights this week, you are to go out and do the following -
- Walk up to 5 groups of girls and say, "You guys are the cutest girls in this place", introduce yourself to each of them and leave. (5)
- Walk up to 5 girls and say, "How are you tonight? I thought you were attractive and wanted to say hi.", introduce yourself and leave. (5)
- Walk up to 5 girls and say "You are all sorts of sexy", introduce yourself and leave. (5)
- Spot the hottest girl in the bar, walk up to her and tell her "You are the hottest girl in this place", introduce yourself and leave. (1)
Creeper Challenge: Ask a girl "Can I get a kiss?" if she says "Yes", then immediately try to makeout with her. If she pulls away, just let her go.
If you can do these drills on your own, it's just a matter of looking as good as you can and developing your Killer Instinct (to get girls to leave the bar with you).
There is literally nothing more to it.
Thus ends your final month of 'How to Go Out Alone to Bars'.
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