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As I mentioned in Sexual Apathy, writing a sexual bucketlist is a great way to keep things fresh in the bedroom and ensure you have a solid mission to work on if sex is becoming less fulfilling as time goes on.
You can also use your bucketlist for experiments to learn things youâ€™ve always been curious about. Eg â€śIs it possible to make most girls squirt?â€ť (hint: it is).
â€śAre 3somes really as amazing as everyone says they are?â€ť (Theyâ€™re pretty fucking groovy).
â€śHow long can I keep a girl on the edge without letting her orgasm?â€ť (So long that youâ€™ll need to take a break for lunch).
â€śWhat happens if I start tickling a girl while sheâ€™s cumming?â€ť (Itâ€™ll be the funniest shit youâ€™ve ever seen).
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How to Build Your List
Building your bucketlist is easy â€“ and a hell of a lot of fun. Sit down with a big sheet of paper or your laptop, and let your imagination run wild. Think of the filthiest, wildest things youâ€™ve always wanted to try â€“ no matter how â€śout thereâ€ť or weird they are (obviously: make sure theyâ€™re legal).
Hereâ€™s a few ideas to get you thinking:
- You dominate the girl
- Making her orgasm over and over again or teasing/edging her
- She dominates you/takes the lead, seducing you
- Calling her dirty names (slut, whore, bitch, etc â€“ but make sure sheâ€™s into it first)
- Toys (This is the site I buy a lot of mine from).
- Blindfolding a girl and spending hours teasing her
- Teasing her with ice cubes, hot wax
- Slave/Dom, etc
- Use a dick pump to make your dick massive
- Vibrators (hereâ€™s the one I use and recommend)
- Whips, ropes, etc (buy this BDSM starter kit if you have no idea where to start).
- Two girls whoâ€™ve never met each other
- Get one of your girls to bring her friend along
- Get one of your girls to find other girls on Tinder
- You and your girl go to a bar and try to seduce a girl together
Sex in public:
- In the backseat of a car
- In an alleyway
- In the back of a cinema
- In a restaurant
- In a public toilet
- (Iâ€™m not encouraging you to break the law â€“ use your own judgement)
A specific type of girl:
- A stripper
- Girls with tattoos
- Gym/fitness girls
- A high-profile female lawyer
- A circus performer/acrobat (Iâ€™ve banged 3 of them)
- Asian girls
- A girl whoâ€™s super intelligent
- An escort
- A cheerleader
A specific body part:
- A girl with huge tits
- Tiny tits
- Ginger hair
- Huge ass
Girls who can do cool things:
- A girl who can cum from only touching her nipples (yes, those girls exist)
- A girl who can multiple orgasm with no effort
- A girl who can squirt
- A girl whoâ€™s never orgasmed (so you can have fun teaching her how to orgasm)
- A virgin you can mentor and teach about her own body
- Shy girls
- A girl whoâ€™s never tried a specific sex act and whoâ€™s really excited for you to try it with her
More-experienced girls: These girls are usually much more chilled about sex, wonâ€™t play games with you, give you less drama, and make awesome fuckbuddies (because theyâ€™re usually cool to hang out with after sex).
Specific sex acts/positions:
- Rough sex
- Ruined orgasms
- Her being COMPLETELY quiet the entire time
- Licking pussy
- Pain (whipping, spanking, etc)
- Cumming on a girlâ€™s face
- Picking a girl up and fucking her in the air (bounce her up and down on your cock)
- Make her taste her own pussy juice
- Videoing/taking photos during sex
- Sex on LSD/psychedelics
- 69â€™ing and you both cum at exactly the same moment (mutual orgasms)
- Eating a girlâ€™s ass
- 3somes as a couple
- Having sex with a girl you approach on the street
- Sex on first dates
- Banging 100 girls total
- Banging 3 girls in 1 day
- Banging a girl and her best friend
- Banging 7 girls in 7 days
- Banging a girl within 15 minutes of meeting her for the first time
You can also go watch a bunch of porn to see whatâ€™s out there. Hereâ€™s a massive list of porn types courtesy of Reddit, including many youâ€™ve probably never even considered:
Get Girls to Write Their Own Lists
A great way to discover new kinks youâ€™ve never considered is to tell every girl you sleep with to write her own bucketlist and share it with you. A lot of them will surprise you with their fantasies â€“ theyâ€™ll have fetishes youâ€™d never in a million years have thought of. Youâ€™ll get to learn new things & discover different aspects of the human psyche/human sexuality.
Best of all, if you practice doing this with every girl you meet, youâ€™ll become a sort of â€śgatewayâ€ť for her to discover her secret desires and fantasies. Youâ€™ll be the nonjudgemental, understanding guide whoâ€™ll be a safe place for her to try things sheâ€™s always wanted to try & let out her inner â€śslutâ€ť. Youâ€™ll start seeing yourself as â€śThe Guy who Unleashes Girlsâ€™ Deepest Fantasiesâ€ť.
When you bring up the subject of her writing her own bucketlist, make it very clear youâ€™re not going to judge her for anything on her list. If sheâ€™s worried about you thinking she has weird fantasies (girls tend to be way more paranoid about being â€śpervertsâ€ť than we are), sheâ€™ll never open up to you. Hereâ€™s an text message I recently sent to a girl:
Hereâ€™s an example list one of my girls replied with:
Exploring a girlâ€™s list with her is a hell of a lot of fun â€“ itâ€™ll be like a project or assignment you get to work through together. Each week when you meet up, youâ€™ll get to explore a little further, go a little deeper, tick more things off the list. Incidentally, youâ€™ll also find girls are much more keen to keep on seeing you for longer periods of time, because youâ€™ll be building something together.
I love telling girls that weâ€™re going to explore one item from her list every time we meet â€“ but that Iâ€™m not going to tell her which item it will be. Girls absolutely love the surprise of never knowing what theyâ€™re going to get when they see you.
Examples from My Own List
Hereâ€™s a small selection of examples from my own bucketlist (this isnâ€™t all of it; my complete list is fucking huge). Some of these Iâ€™ve already ticked off; others Iâ€™ll have fun ticking off in the future. Feel free to steal some of these for your own list.
- Make an amateur porn film, with decent production values (use my DSLR camera).
- Fuck a girl and make her call a friend/family member to have a casual chat, while Iâ€™m fucking her (trying to be quiet and not make it obvious sheâ€™s having sex).
- Make a girl sit in front of a full-length mirror, and she masturbates while staring into her own eyes the entire time (Iâ€™ve had girls do this, and itâ€™s one of the most intense things youâ€™ll ever do â€“ for you and for her).
- Tie my main girl up and mke her sit in the corner of the room with a vibrator in her pussy, watching as I fuck another girl in front of her.
- Cum on a girl while sheâ€™s sleeping, like this (NSFW). Talk to her about this beforehand so you donâ€™t freak her out in the middle of her slumber.
- A few girls have told me this one, this is in their words: â€śI want to try and wrestle with you, but you overpower me and eventually tire me out and I have no choice but to stop fighting you and let you take me.â€ť
- Create a portfolio of high quality BDSM artwork.
- Cum in a girlâ€™s hands and make her lick it up, like this (NSFW).
- Play with hot candle wax.
- Have 2 girls making out with each other while I cum on their faces, & they continue making out afterwards.
- Make a girl to pee her panties in public, without anybody else noticing.
- Gag a girl with her own panties, like this (NSFW).
- While a girl is hanging out with her friends, she secretly has a vibrator in her pussy. Her job is to try to last an hour without anybody noticing sheâ€™s acting â€śweirdâ€ť.
- Similar to above â€“ have a vibrator with a wireless remote. She has the vibrator inside her. Go to a restaurant together, I turn the vibrator on/off whenever I want, and she has to keep a straight face and not let anybody notice.
- Tie a girl up and tie a vibrator to her pussy, so she canâ€™t take it off, like this (NSFW).
- Have a girl secretly play with herself in public in front of you (eg on a train, in a cafe, etc).
- Have my girl take the lead during sex (Iâ€™m usually the dominant one).
- Have a 4some (with 3 girls).
- Take my main girl to a bar, and we seduce another girl together.
- Rip a girlâ€™s shirt/pantyhose/panties/etc during sex, like this (NSFW).
- Make a girl scream and beg and go completely wild during sex so I have to muffle her mouth with my hand (this is my favourite type of sex).
- Cum on a girlâ€™s face, then immediately start banging her again, like this (NSFW).
- Cum on her shirt/dress, and make her go back home without cleaning it off.
- Get girls to write dirty things on themselves in marker pen, like this (NSFW).
- Bang a super-fit gym bunny.
- Bang a hippy girl at a festival.
- Play drunken truth or dare with 2 girls (in a 3some).
- Hold a girl up in the air and eat her pussy while she gives me a blowjob, like this (NSFW).
- Bang a goth girl.
- (And about 100 other thingsâ€¦)
Go out there and have fun â€“ explore your sexuality. Thereâ€™s a million billion ways you can have sex â€“ it doesnâ€™t always have to be vanilla.
(Obvious disclaimer: make sure the girl is cool with any of the stuff you try before you do it.)