After an hour or so of comfort and rapport in the cafe Wisdom makes himself scarce and IÂ take the girl for a drink. I’m going for the SDL – something I’ve only recently beenÂ trying. It’s a no-brainer because she’s going back to Hunland on Monday night. We have aÂ drink in the Sherlock Holmes pub nearby standing up so I can test her comfort (it’s good)Â and she’s telling me she just split up with her boyfriend and he’s moved out her flat. SheÂ clearly wants excitement but isn’t intellectually quite right with the idea. I talk aÂ little about how society judges women too much and other things that give her the moralÂ go-ahead. She seems to think I’m super smart but I don’t want to fall into the trap ofÂ getting all intellectual, or worse, dad-like with her.
We have another drink at a new pub and we’re arm in arm by now but she’s hanging on quiteÂ loose. More talk and I do a little NLP to raise her state and then kiss close. Easy. She’sÂ all over me know but refuses the extraction. I guess she’s been out since 8am so can’tÂ blame her. She’s keen to meet tomorrow so I don’t push past the kiss and hand holding.Â There’s not much coming at me vis-a-vis shit tests. We kiss goodbye at the station and thenÂ the next evening we meet.
There’s a quick kiss on the hello to re-establish the frame. She throws her arm around myÂ neck but I shrug it off and walk her arm in arm to the pub. She’s hanging on tight now. TheÂ fact she came out at all means its on. I want to make her wait for the proper kiss and playÂ around a bit – leaning back and making her lean in to me, getting her to qualify etc. She’sÂ well into me now. We move on to the member’s club and sit on a sofa in a quiet corner. WeÂ start kissing and I work on strong alpha posture and let her climb all over me. She’sÂ loving it and really breathing deep and pushing herself into me passionately. So much soÂ I’m almost embarrased everytime the waiters go past.
I go for the extraction and sheÂ resists, saying we won’t be fucking.I make a joke of that, saying we have agreed not to fuck tonight and have to promise toÂ stick to it no matter how tempting it gets. That completely frees me to verbally escalateÂ and for most of the next hour we are talking about all of the sexual things we won’t beÂ doing tonight. Her buying temperature is crazy-hot and her eyes are sparkling. She can’tÂ keep her hands off my cock. I go for the extraction again.
Krauser: C’mon I’ll make you those cocktails. Nothing is gonna happen because we’ve alreadyÂ agreed we’re not fucking.
HB Squarehead: No. Not tonight.
Krauser: Look at me. Don’t you trust me?
HB Squarehead: I don’t trust myself *throws herself onto me again*
I’m now thinking only a back-alley fuck is possible if anything. I take her outside andÂ before long we are in some dark doorway making out big time. She’s so horny but simply willÂ not escalate to skin-on-skin. I’m still enjoying myself and really having fun with theÂ verbal escalation. I figure I might as well seed the possibility of her coming back for aÂ fuck holiday. You never know. I also frame all my verbal escalation around how young girlsÂ can easily fuck boys but they are surprised how different it is to be fucked by a man.Â She’s properly wet and I’m flummoxed on the inability to extract, or to rip her trousersÂ down right there. I do try. I figure it’s better to be a pushy arsehole than a wimpy beta.Â When I try unzipping her she refuses:
HB Squarehead: You’re just trying to get me hot so I change my mind
Krauser: No. I’m giving you are preview of what you’ll get next time we meet
HB Squarehead: You sound sure we’ll be fucking.
Krauser: Because we will and you know it.
HB Squarehead: *squirms, grabs cock, pushes fanny into it [through jeans]*
Krauser: I’m showing you that I go after what I want.
HB Squarehead: That’s for sure!
After about an hour of this I put her on the train home. While I didn’t get the lay, it’s aÂ nice reference experience. I’m a mid-thirties guy and I just met a 22yr old in the streetÂ and came within a whisker of fucking her. Nice.