In the new book I write quite a lot about expectations and reality in daygame. It seems only fair that as 2013 draws to a close and I sit in my dressing gown sipping coffee, running a hot bath, I should offer some summary statistics for the year. Most of these numbers rely upon estimates because I didnât keep notes. Only the final laycount is 100% reliable.
My New Year’s Eve
Opens: I racked my memory to estimate how many days I went out each month and roughly how many sets I did per day then multiplied one by the other. The only months Iâm absolutely sure of are February (in Brazil, did almost nothing), April (I actually kept notes that month, I was very active), May, November and December (very little work). The rest is a blur. Most times when I do a âfull sessionâ Iâll open 10-15 girls. Some days I do one open, get an idate and then Iâm finished. This opens number is accurate to the nearest 300.
Numbers: I tend to get one phone number or social media add for every four girls I talk to. I rarely bother asking if she doesnât seem keen. So this total is just ¼ of the Opens estimate
Dates: I tend to bang half the girls I get onto a first date, so this is just double the lays number.
Lays: This number is exact. I kept notes and itâs memorable enough that I donât really need the notes.
Opens: 1,000
Numbers: 250
Dates: 60
iDates: 15
Lays: 27 new girls, 3 repeats from prior years
So thatâs one lay per 37 opens. It sounds about right. I think itâs 1 in 20 on holiday and 1 in 50 in London. Now lets categorise the lays.
SDL: 5
SNL: 3
Day 2 lay: 7
Day 3+ lay: 7
Long Game lay: 5
So thereâs no particular pattern there. Letâs consider the geographical distribution:
Sex in same country we met: 25
Sex in different country to open: 2 (the two long game lays in neutral country)
And for the Long Game:
Sex where she came back to London: 1
Sex where I went back to her country: 2
Sex where we both went to a neutral country: 2
Now lets get to the ages. I’m 38. The average age of girl I slept with was 25, making a 13-year average age difference. Only one girl didn’t tell me her age, a Brazilian who didn’t speak English. I’d estimate her as mid-twenties. More stats:
Youngest: 20
Oldest: 30
Number of girls under 25: 14
Number of girls over 25: 13
Let’s consider nationalities (not ethnicity). I’d say the Slavs and Balkans were the hottest, averaging 8s. Overall I think twelve of the girls were legit 8s (I feel some pride having them on my arm), four were 6s (not too proud of myself) and the rest were 7s. I’m very strict on what I call a 9 (gobsmacking beauty that turns heads everywhere) and though I dated and made out with a few I never banged any in 2013:
Slavic: 9
Balkan: 4
Western Europe: 4
Anglosphere: 2
Latino: 6
Other: 2
Iâve also racked my brain for near misses. I only count them as a near miss if the girls was totally up for it, had her hand on my dick, Iâd had my hand on her pussy, and sheâs either agreed to come to my place or weâd been in a sex location. Itâs a bit of a muddy definition but every single one of these girls I was certain I was going to fuck and then it fell apart at the last minute:
Near misses: 12
Failure due to LMR at sex location: 6
Failure due to unexpected outside forces: 3
Failure due to logistical errors: 3
Iâd say Iâm pretty happy with those stats. Thereâs room for improvement but at the quality Iâm tapping, itâs nice to know I only have to open 40 girls to get laid once. Thatâs basically two or three dayâs graft for a new girl and not many dates-to-nowhere.
