Once you get some game knowledge, you should be able to take the temperature of a relationship and know when a breakup is coming. However, love is chaotic. Female emotions can be flighty. Baggage can come out of nowhere and threaten your relationship. You should be prepared so that if a breakup happens, it doesn’t shake your entire world.
Here are some steps to take during a relationship, while things are still good, to ensure you can maintain your alpha stature in case of a blindsiding breakup.
Have an identity that doesn’t involve her. If she is simply a guest in your reality and not your entire reality, then when your time with her comes to an abrupt end, you won’t have a mental breakdown. Kay left Michael Corleone, but he is still Michael Fucking Corleone. Live for your mission, not for her. When a breakup happens, you don’t retreat into depression, you concentrate your forces on your mission.
Never let your social circle diminish. Couples who spend every minute together are not only painfully annoying, they will also be hit harder after a breakup because they have less to fall back on. As a man you are more likely to choke off friends in your social circle to spend more time with your warm-holed princess, and so you should be mindful of this rule.
Keep female friends, and have a few orbiting you who want to fuck you. Preferably these friends will be as hot as your girlfriend. Just having them in your life will trigger a healthy jealousy reflex in your girlfriend. If and when a breakup does happen, you will get over it faster if you have other girls around. Even if you don’t fuck them.
Have your own friends. You can’t share the exact same social circle with your girlfriend and expect a breakup to go smoothly. Plus its kinda lame. She can hang out with your friends here and there, but not enough to develop any type of true connection with them. They are your friends, not hers, and you are not a package deal.
Don’t add her on social networking sites. Actually, avoiding social networking sites entirely is the alpha play. If you have one, you really need to pull some jedi tricks to avoid adding her. If you do, don’t put up your default photo as one of you and her together. Don’t put yourself as “in a relationship” with her. Social networking sites not only ruin mystery, they are also just another place for you to react visibly to a breakup, which you don’t want.
Continue cold approaching while you are in a relationship. Even if you have no desire to cheat, having your finger on the pulse of your sexual market value is a great way to maintain confidence and an abundance mentality that will both help you stay dominant in your relationship, and ensure you swift recovery in case of a breakup.
Don’t move in together. Okay, you will have to concede this if you get married, but its otherwise a horrible idea. You kill the mystery, and become something of a package deal as far as hanging out with friends and doing stuff goes. Plus any post-breakup strategy is crippled by your forced involvement with her to figure out living arrangements. If you must cohabitate, making sure the lease or house is in your name only would be the best strategy.
Do fun shit together. When your relationship ends, your memories will be of stuff you did: nights out, kinky sex. If you don’t make worthwhile memories, the relationship will feel like wasted time. Don’t be fucking boring during a relationship and you won’t be boring after it.
