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laidnyc
June 25, 2013

One of the best things you can do for your sex life is shut the fuck up about it.

Don’t tell anyone who you’ve fucked.
Don’t tell anyone who you want to fuck.
If a girl sends you nudes, don’t show anyone.
If you tell sex and pickup stories, make the girl anonymous or don’t tell the story at all.

Why?

Your validation from sex is the nut.
You have sex for the sex, not to talk about it afterwards.

Gossiping about your sex life is a weak, attention-seeking activity.  If you feel a need to tell someone about every successful pickup you do or every girl you bang, your inner game needs work.  If you can pickup, seduce and bang the hottest girl you’ve ever seen, get it documented on video and camera, and never tell anybody about it or show anybody the evidence, deriving all your satisfaction from just the experience itself, then you can call yourself a man.

I have rarely heard a guy talk about his sex life and look cool in the process.  Listen closely the next time a guy starts bragging about where he stuck his dick.  You’ll note how approval-seeking and desperate to impress he is.

Beyond that, keep in mind that hooking up with a guy is rarely good for a girl’s social status.  Being judged socially is one of many negative consequences that can happen to a girl having casual sex.  If you eliminate this consequence she’ll be far more likely to have sex with you or keep having sex with you.  Present yourself as a guy who does not gossip about sex.

In regards to the world beyond the tip of your own penis, you should make it a point of pride not to gossip about other people’s shit as well.

Gossip is a tool the unworthy use to get attention by leveraging the actions of the worthy.  The gossiper is rewarded with a brief flash of attention, but they sacrifice their honor and respect in the process.  I have no respect for gossipers.  Nobody does.

Okay, but what about trust?  What if you really trust the person?  Then can you tell them secrets?

Let me tell you something, Henry Hill.

There is almost nobody on this earth you can trust.  Let’s run through the usual suspects.

You can’t trust women.  Anything worthwhile you tell a woman will be known by her bff and her mother within the hour.  This includes your girlfriend, wife, sister, mom, anyone.  They all gossip.  Gossiping is as natural as breathing to a woman.  They constantly need to have their feelings about a situation validated and the only way to do that is to talk about it.  Don’t tell a woman anything unless you want everyone else to know.  Don’t ever tell a woman classified information and then bitch that she told someone else, even if you told her it was a secret.  It is her nature to tell secrets and you should know better.  It is your fault, not hers.

You can’t trust beta males.  A beta male has nothing of note to talk about.  Knowing how much women love gossip, he will gladly spill your secret to a girl he’s been crushing on if he thinks it will get him a smile from her.  If he thinks telling your secret will break an awkward silence that his boringness is causing, he’ll tell it.  Boring guys can’t get attention from their own personality and actions, so they’ll gossip about yours if they have to.  Beta males also don’t understand the world of a guy who has options with women.  Your sex life may offend his morals and worldview.  He will tell people how offended he is.  If a guy doesn’t get laid regularly, he can’t be trusted with your secret.

Alphas, however, are also not immune from secret-spilling.  A more sociopathic alpha will use anything at his disposal to get laid or maintain his status.  He’ll tell your story and reframe your actions to make himself look better by comparison.  He’ll poison the well with a girl you want to bang so that he remains the alpha in her eyes.  He will use your secret to blackmail or start a rift between you and another guy.  Its worst when these guys spill your secret, because it is calculated and they know how to frame it to make you look your worst.  I have been burned this way a few times, even by guys I previously considered friends.

The only person on this earth capable of keeping your secret is an alpha male with abundance mentality who has proven loyalty to you.  You will be very lucky to meet even a handful of these guys in your life.  Your brothers or father are not in this category by default, they need to earn trust just like anybody else.  You may make many friends and acquantances in life but only a very select few, if any, may get to this level.  You should strive to be this person to your friends and family.  I have a few secrets that could cause those close to me great harm that I’m taking to the grave.

Keep your mouth shut and your dick hard.

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Title Shut Up
Author laidnyc
Date June 25, 2013 1:00 PM UTC (10 years ago)
Blog LaidNYC
Archive Link https://theredarchive.com/blog/LaidNYC/shut-up.56563
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