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The Night I Invented Game and Lost My Virginity

laidnyc
June 11, 2013

Kacey was 18.

She had long blond hair that cascaded down to her lower back, a face that could launch a thousand jealous fistfights, and an ass that would make Viagra redundant for even the most haggard octogenarian.  She went to a rival high school and I had seen her at a few parties sipping her Mike’s Hard Lemonade and at the gym driving me crazy in hot pink cheerleader shorts.

There was no girl I wanted to fuck more in the entire county.

I had never spoken with her but she had seen me around and told one of our mutual friends that she thought I was hot.  The friend, in an act of great charity towards my cock, invited us both to her house for a movie.  There I got Kacey’s number and all signs pointed to go.  Perfect, right?

The problem was that I was 17.  My whole life, everyone had been conspiring against my happiness. I was beta programmed by my parents, my family, and society.
I was told that girls want relationships and have basically no sex drive, and that my sex drive made me a horny pig.
I was told guys who treat girls mean are jerks and the girls don’t actually like them, and the way to get a girl to love you is to be nice.
The more beautiful the girl, the nicer I wanted to treat her and the more innocent I thought she was.  If the girl wasn’t that hot I probably could have veggie burger alpha’d, but Kacey was a HARD 9.  I stood no chance.

I took Kacey out on a few beta dates.  She got sick and I drove to her house and gave her a rose.  We made out a few different times but I made no attempt to escalate.  I wanted to fuck this girl with every beat of my heart but I had a fear that was trumping my horniness.  She was a good girl to hang on to, I decided, and I didn’t want to rush into the physical and fuck up my long term prospects with her.  Predictably, my inability to pull the trigger and escalate was causing our little mini-relationship to stale and I could feel it.  We went a couple weeks with only minimal texting, through which I could sense her attraction for me waning.

Whatever apparent looks I had that she thought was hot, they had written a check that my personality couldn’t cash.  Looks matter, but they don’t matter.

Right when things were about to come to their logical conclusion, her blowing me off, I was invited to a party by one of our mutual friends.  I knew Kacey would be at the party and I also knew deep in my bones that she would reject me.  So I made a decision before the party that I wasn’t even going to give her the satisfaction.  I was going to ignore her.

I wasn’t ignoring her to get her more attracted to me, I was doing it to have fun.  You see, I took her rejecting me as a foregone conclusion, and I didn’t see being rejected or chasing her attention as fun, so I decided I would just hang out with my friends, talk to girls, play drinking games and just enjoy the party.  When I entered, Kacey paid me no attention whatsoever.  As the party went on, I was having a great time, telling stories that got people laughing, flirting with a few of her friends, winning drinking games, and just generally being a fun social person.  I noticed Kacey trying to get my attention.  A few times she would ask me a question and I would give her a short, straightforward response, and then go back to what I was doing.  I wouldn’t flirt with her the way I was with the other girls.

At first, I was ignoring her so she couldn’t blow me off, but as she kept trying to talk to me more and more the more I ignored her, I FELT what was happening.  You see, you can be indoctrinated with blue pill beta perspectives your whole life but no lie can trump the moment of clarity you get when you see game and female nature in action for the first time.

 She was becoming attracted to me….because I was ignoring her.

I decided to keep it going.  It was fun. A few more hours of me having a ton of fun and paying her scant attention, while all the other dudes at the party fawned over her, had her pussy marinated and ready.  The party wound down and I went outside to say goodbye to a few people who were leaving.  When I walked back in the house, Kacey cornered me in the front hallway.

Still doing the aloof thing, I said “hey” and tried to walk past her.  She blocked my path.

“What were you just going to ignore me all night?” She asked, inching her face closer to mine.

I got the hint.  We made out and a rush of blood triumphantly shot into my dick.  There would be no fear of escalating this time.  Without exchanging words we walked into the nearest bedroom, which happened to be the host’s parent’s bedroom.  Four minutes later, I was a man.

This was before the days of guys sharing seduction secrets on the internet.  With no evidence to the contrary, I thought I had invented game and what I called the “Ignore Strategy”.  I told all my friends how to do it: Get a girl interested in you, then ignore her and have fun with her friends, and she’ll try to hook up with you.  It worked for them, and it worked for me many more times.

Of course, when “The Game” hit and the seduction community popped up online, I realized that guys all over the place had discovered and were running versions of my “Ignore Strategy”.  Negging, asshole game, etc.  It had many names.  I didn’t invent it, I had just discovered it in parallel.  However, I’m still proud of it.

You can read manosphere blogs and watch PUA youtube clips all day but your deepest, most hard-hitting insight into female nature will be that which you experience firsthand.

I enjoyed Kacey a few more times, but we went to different colleges and lost touch.  Last I checked she is seriously dating a cop who is probably going to ring her up.  I didn’t love her or bond strongly to her like I did with a couple girls after her, but I will always feel a cosmic connection to the nearly perfect 18 year old version of her.  That girl showed me a great truth of the universe and helped me discover the man inside me that society had been trying to keep shackled.  Its been a great ride ever since.  So thank you Kacey, and I don’t mean for the sex.

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Title The Night I Invented Game and Lost My Virginity
Author laidnyc
Date June 11, 2013 1:00 PM UTC (10 years ago)
Blog LaidNYC
Archive Link https://theredarchive.com/blog/LaidNYC/the-night-i-invented-game-and-lost-myvirginity.56558
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