I have standards for women. I am attracted to women and I date women so I hold women to sexual market standards and I judge them if they do not meet these standards.
I do not have standards for men. I am not attracted to men, nor do I date men so it makes no sense for me to judge them on sexual market criteria. That job is reserved for women.
When you comprehend these things, you understand that there are no double standards. Men have their standards for women. Women have their standards for men. The two may be different or even opposite but that does not mean either sex is being hypocritical.
When women complain about double standards, they are really just complaining about their own standards.
Let’s take the classic example: If a girl fucks 100 guys she’s a slut, but if a guy fucks 100 girls he’s awesome. This is just as easily flipped. If a girl is a virgin, she is pure and desired, but if a guy is a virgin he is a loser. What a horrible double standard men are being subjected to, right? Right?? If you see things through this perspective, far more men are victims of the so-called double standard than women. There are countless sexless nothings who women don’t want because they are sexually inexperienced.
Yet, these virgin dorks very, very rarely bitch and complain about the “double standard” they are being subjected to. Why?
I propose it is because things can get better for male virgins. They know things can get better with more social skills or status or a better job or workout routine. Male virgins can channel their failure into self-improvement or even just plain old hope. This is enough to keep them from bitching.
On the other side, the female slut can not turn back the cock odometer. She knows deep down her value has been eroded but she can’t unfuck all of the alpha cock. She can’t unblow that drummer from the band. All she can do is protest about the unfairness of it all, and rationalize it as a “double standard” so she can sound like she is a victim of society, rather than a girl who made poor choices.
A rule of human nature is that which cannot be changed is protested the loudest.
See, when women start arguing about the “double standard”, men lose the argument right away by accepting the frame that there IS a double standard, then trying to justify it. There’s not. Tell her the hypocrisy is hers and she’s free to stop fucking the guy who fucks 100 girls if his privilege bothers her so bad.
For anyone still not understanding why the double standard myth is ridiculous, picture this:
A man has gynecomastia (bitch tits). He literally has boobs. You hear him complaining, “Hey when girls have tits they are desired but when I grow them no girl will fuck me.” Double standard?
