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Attract Women With The 10% Rule

June 21, 2018

Chad Thundercock has it easy. He’s 6’4, has Hugh Jackman’s muscle definition, and his face looks like it was sculpted by Zeus.

When Chad goes out, beautiful women regularly approach him. These women pursue Chad with the feverish intensity of cats in heat. Chad doesn’t worry about getting rejected, he worries about having to reject another 10 women each night.

Wouldn’t it be nice to be Chad Thundercock?

Wouldn’t it be nice to have women throw themselves at you just because of your incredible good looks?

Yes, yes it would. But you aren’t him. Almost no one is, only about one in ten thousand men are so incredibly good looking that beautiful women regularly and actively pursue them.

I have a friend who’s 6’3, jacked, and probably in the top 1% of guys in terms of looks. Is attracting women easier for him because of that? Of course it is.

But you know what, this guy usually ends up hooking up with women who are average looking at best. This guy is physically attractive, and women basically throw themselves at him, but he’s not confident enough in himself to pull the trigger.

Good Enough

Yes, looks help. But you don’t need to be the best-looking guy in a club to get a beautiful woman to come home with you.

You don’t need to be the most charismatic guy in the club, either. You just need to be 10% better than the average guy.

Women – even beautiful ones – aren’t just sleeping with men who fit the societal mold of what perfection is supposed to be. They’re sleeping with men who are GOOD ENOUGH.

These are men who have proper hygiene (it’s shocking how many guys don’t), who are fairly interesting to talk to, who are presentable looking. Women sleep with men that are 10% better than the average douchebag.

You don’t need to become the ideal man, become a man who’s 10% better than the average guy.

If you think your appearance is below average, get a $50 haircut, get some fitted clothes, and start going to the gym. Most guys can become better than average looking if they put in some effort.

If you think your personality is below average, start going out with a wingman and ask him for feedback.

To get useful feedback, ask questions like:

  • “What could I have done better?
  • “What would you change about my body language?
  • “What do you think my biggest sticking point is?”

(To find a wing, your best bet is the Inner Circle Facebook groups).

Whatever area of your game you want to improve on, don’t think you need to become god-tier, you just need to be 10% better than average.

When you’re talking to that stunner, she’s not judging whether you’re the most attractive guy she’s ever met. She’s judging whether you’re attractive, period.

When you meet a girl, are you deciding whether you want to sleep with her based on whether she’s a perfect 10? Or are you deciding based on whether she is attractive, or not?

The threshold to be judged as attractive to a good percentage of women isn’t as high as you might think.

Women aren’t much different. Sure, they hypothetically want the perfect guy, but in reality, they end up hooking up with perfectly normal, flawed guys who are attractive enough.

If you want to succeed with women, don’t aim to be perfect, aim to be 10% better than the average guy.

For a systematic 150-page guide to becoming a guy who naturally attracts women, check out: Irresistible How To Attract Women With Ease:

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