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Signs A Woman Is Attracted To You Sexually

January 17, 2018

Signs A Woman Is Attracted To You Sexually

If she’s on top of you in her underwear, that’s definitely a good sign- women are usually a bit more subtle, though.

(This article is available above as a video with real-life examples.)

As men, when we’re interested in a girl, we have to wonder, “If I make a move on her is it going to creep her out?”

I used to be terrified that if I showed a girl that I was interested, she would be offended and terminate our friendship completely.

If anything, the past few months of sexual misconduct allegations made against men in power have made this worse.

We’ve seen numerous cases in which a man didn’t understand that a woman wasn’t interested, and that man ended up publicly shamed, and in some cases even lost his career (I.E. Al Franken).

But none of those allegations would have happened if the men involved had a basic understanding of empathy, if they noticed the women were uncomfortable and responded appropriately, there would have been no allegations.

When it comes to sexuality, men like to communicate their interest directly, but women usually don’t. Women communicate their interest much more subtly.

To notice the signs a woman is attracted to you sexually, you’re mostly going to want to be aware of her nonverbal communication.

The following signs a woman is attracted to you sexually are the most common ways for a woman to show interest. If you notice some of them, there’s a good chance she’s attracted to you.

Of course, none of these mean 100% that the girl is attracted to you, everyone is different, and sometimes a woman who’s extroverted and friendly may give a lot of these signs just because it’s part of her personality.


Escalate Gradually

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If you get some of these signs, it doesn’t mean you should go straight “in for the kill”. Instead, escalate gradually: hold the girl’s hand before kissing her, kiss her before getting sexual, etc.

By escalating gradually, you can see how the girl responds to your physical moves (like holding hands), and if she responds well you can take it a step further. This way, you can always take a step back if she gets uncomfortable.

Seduction is a dance, it’s something you and a girl share, the reason powerful men have been getting allegations made against them lately, is that they haven’t been treating it like a dance, they bluntly make an obtrusively sexual move, and it’s jarring and awkward for the girl.



1: She Holds Eye Contact With You

If a woman holds strong eye contact with you, it’s definitely a good sign. It shows that she’s interested in the conversation you and her are having, and that she’s comfortable with you.

Strong eye contact doesn’t necessarily imply sexual attraction, but the stronger the eye contact, the more likely it is due to sexual interest.

Of course, this is a sign a lot of guys miss because they don’t make strong eye contact themselves. If your eye contact is darty, you’re not going to notice when a woman is trying to hold strong eye contact with you.

So, if you want to notice this sign, you should make strong eye contact with women you’re interested in. (As an added bonus, strong eye contact can be a turn-on, so making strong eye contact will also make you more attractive.)

2: She Fills Conversational Gaps By Asking You Questions

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It’s a good sign if you meet a girl, you chat for a bit, and as soon as there’s a moment of silence, she fills it with questions like:


“So, where are you from?”

“What do you do for a living?”

“Do you come here often?”


When a girl isn’t at all interested in you, she’ll either leave the silence blank or use it as an excuse to end the interaction. When a girl fills the silence with questions, it means she wants to keep talking to her.

Obviously, this doesn’t always mean she’s sexually interested, but it at least means she likes having you around so far.

3: She Touches You

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For most women, touching a guy is the most obvious indicator of interest she’ll show. If a girl finds excuses to touch your shoulder or arm, it’s a great sign.

The reason this is so important is that when a girl touches you, it generally invites you to reciprocate (it implies that she’d be okay with a similar type of touch from you).

See, when women are uninterested in a guy, they often make sure to avoid physical contact to not lead him on.

As an important disclaimer, understand that you can’t expect every woman who likes you to proactively touch you, a lot of girls just won’t do this. So, although it’s a great sign when a girl touches you, don’t take it as a bad sign if she doesn’t.

4: She Gives A “Green Light” When You Touch Her

This is my favorite way to get a sense of whether a girl is attracted to me. If you touch a girl, say on the shoulder, and she responds by touching you back or by leaning into you, she’s giving you a “green light“, it means she likes being touched by you.

This is a strong indication that a girl is interested in you, and because most women wait for the man to make the first move sexually, it’s the sign that I rely on the most.


5: She Laughs A Lot


When we’re attracted to someone, we tend to exaggerate how interesting they are to show them that we like them. Oftentimes, this manifests in a woman laughing a lot when talking to you (even if you’re not that funny).

Basically, if a girl is laughing it’s a good sign. It means she’s enjoying talking to you and has a good sense of rapport with you.

However, if she laughs even when what you said wasn’t actually that funny, it’s an even better sign.


6: She Plays With Her Hair

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When a woman plays with her hair, it can mean that subconsciously she’s either:

  1. Trying to make herself look as good as possible so that you notice how pretty she is.
  2. Feeling self-conscious about her appearance because she’s interested in you.

On the other hand, sometimes when a woman plays with her hair, she’s just playing with her hair, but this is still a good sign.


Wrapping Up Signs A Woman Is Attracted To You Sexually

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I could list a hundred more signs that a woman is interested in you sexually. But the above are the most common, and therefore the most important.

I want to emphasize that the most important of these signs is that she gives you a green light when you’re physical with her.

I used to rely on seeing a bunch of signs of interest before even touching a girl on the shoulder, and I missed a lot of opportunities because some girls just don’t go out of their way to make their attraction for you obvious.

But, if a girl responds positively to your touch, then that’s a great sign, and it’s fairly universal, if a girl likes you, she’s probably going to respond positively to touch.

Looking for signs that a girl is interested is useful (especially when you’re less romantically), and it’s definitely important to be aware how a girl is feeling, but the only one of these signs that you should rely on heavily is whether she gives a green light when you initiate physicality.

PS: If you want to 10x your dating confidence so you can have great relationships with the highest quality women, check out: Irresistible: How To Attract Women With Ease.

Read next:

9 Easy Tricks To Make A Girl Horny Fast

How To Win At Day Game – 3 Keys For Attracting Women During The Day

The Three Best First Date Ideas (That Will Help Get You Laid)

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Author Avery
Date January 17, 2018 12:41 AM UTC (4 years ago)
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