I’m going to keep this post short because it doesn’t need to be long:
CITY STREETS AND SIDEWALKS ARE NOT THE ONLY PLACES TO RUN GAME.
In fact, in many cases, those are the worst places to meet women. Because a lot of street day game is bound to fail from the beginning for two simple reasons:
- It often amounts to bothering women who are either on the way to or from work, OR heading out for a date, meeting a friend, going to a party, etc. In other words: you’re not her focus, and worse, you’re preventing her from doing what she’s set out to do.
- In large cities especially, the average person who stops you on the street is not a high value person. They are homeless, selling something, or otherwise needy in some way. Like, riddle me this: is a super high value guy who has a good job and makes good money trolling the street chatting up women? No, he’s not.
More simply–ask yourself this question anytime you meet a girl: what is the story she’s going to tell her friends about meeting you? Is it, “this weird but kinda goofy, cute guy hit on me on the way over here. He was nice but IDK–I gave him my number so he’d go away. I need a drink!”
“I was walking along the waterfront the other day and I met this super cute guy. He was so bold I gave him my number. Not gonna lie, it was hot. I hope he texts me.”
Like doing psychedelics, mindset and setting matters a ton when it comes to cold approach, as does your frame and the way you present yourself. Which is why I like targeting situations where I will be perceived as a high value guy going about his business doing normal/fun shit, who just happens to come across a hot chick and has the balls to approach.
- Coffee shops
- Book stores
- Grocery stores
- Tourist traps
- Farmers’ Markets
- Saturday/Sunday Markets
- Street Fairs
- Block Parties
- Bars/Tap Houses
I feel like I’ve written this blog or tweeted all this shit before, but for some reason, it seems a HUGE percentage of the day game community insists on beating their heads against the wall on this. If you want better success, stop bothering women, and start meeting them when and where they want to be met.
That’s it. That’s the post. If you want help with this stuff, hit me up.