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Being Controlling Doesn't Work

Rian Ston
March 6, 2020

It’s a shame really, there’s so many wonderful field reports like this. Guys long gone, and hard to find tidbits floating around. I want this put in a museum:

I've tried it all, I've tried every tactic of being controlling. It doesn't work, it's a pure waste of your time. Don't become how I used to be, a controlling bitch.

  • If a woman wants to cheat, she will.

  • If a woman wants to talk to another man, she will.

  • If a woman wants to do whatever the fuck, she will.

I've been the controlling guy, I've been the crazy guy, I've been the nice guy, I've even been the nice controlling guy (example: I'd appreciate if you just don't talk to other guys). It just doesn't fucking work, I've obsessed over how to make my woman loyal, do exactly as I say, not talk to anybody, etc. I was making up imaginary interactions of her talking with guys, I was hamstering hard as fuck.

I've gotten anxiety, I've gotten gut feelings (trust them), I've became obsessed and became crazed. Becoming too invested into someone, is like a disease; you let yourself go and put your all, into one person; it's not worth it.

  • Things will change, when you stop giving a fuck,

  • Things will change, when you work to become the best version of yourself.

  • Women will change towards you, for the better.

But being controlling isn't the way, nothing will change in her behavior. One of my old plates (I'm tired of her and I'm occupied with someone else) was talking about how her boyfriend said "If you talk to a guy, I will break his fucking jaw; I'll rip that shit off." Meanwhile we were at a little get-together and she wanted me to fuck her the whole time. Also, she just told me she cheated and is hooking up with another guy in about a couple weeks. She was also telling her friend how, I have "great dick" and was all excited when she thought I was going to fuck her. A co-worker at my job also likes to talk to me and says how her bf would be so angry and threatens her not to talk to any guys.

The controlling shit doesn't work, I was the controlling guy; take it from me, it's a complete waste of time. If you don't like what a woman is doing, play fair game and withdraw attention; or just hard next her.

Threat's don't work, you're making yourself look stupid. Think of how your acting in third person perspective.

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Title Being Controlling Doesn't Work
Author Rian Ston
Date March 6, 2020 1:59 PM UTC (2 years ago)
Blog Rian Stone
Archive Link https://theredarchive.com/blog/Rian-Stone/being-controlling-doesnt-work.23995
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