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3 Reasons Why Women Fail to Attract High Quality Men

Renee Wade
June 27, 2011
Article updated 2018

Don’t be like other women who fail to attract men…

No, it has NOTHING to do with your physical beauty or lack of âphysical beautyâ.

Havenât you seen and known women who are âaverageâ looking but are able to attract high quality men, and other women who are more physically gifted, only to be rejected again and again by men?

Whatâs going on there?

As you probably know, too many women in our society are failing to attract men. Or at least the ârightâ type of men. This may have happened to you too.

Think back for a moment⦠have you ever wished that a particular man would hopefully feel attracted to you? And hoped he would just want to spend more time with you? Maybe you tried to act a certain way around him or tried to âimpressâ him to get his attention, but eventually you found out the unfortunate truth⦠he somehow WASNâT attracted to you? (And you donât know why!) (Click here to take the quiz on “How High Value High Status Am I on Facebook?”)

Here are the top 3 reasons why so many women fail to attract menâ¦

Failure Reason 1

Women are afraid of being women

Thatâs right, women are actually scared of being women.

How many times have you seen women who are uncomfortable just being themselves?

Itâs almost like they donât have their own permission to be themselvesâ¦

Perhaps you know someone, intimately, who has done this?! (ie. YOU?)

Well, it isnât really your fault. Sometimes, by being an authentic woman, you can really get yourself into dangerous situations if you were to bring attention to yourself (Iâm sure you know other women who have been taken advantage of by men!)

You see, men have preyed on women for as long as weâve been around on this Earth. (Not all men, thank god!) So itâs totally justified to not be comfortable being a woman. (Click here to take the quiz “How Naturally Feminine Am I?”)

But hereâs the problemâ¦if youâre not comfortable being a woman, (and men are attracted to women), then how are you going to be able to attract men? How will you be seen as attractive to men? How will men find you desirable?

They canât.

No matter how much you will them to find you attractive, and no matter how hard you try to impress him, in general, you won’t be able to  attract good men if you’re not 100% comfortable being a woman.

So itâs time for you to get in touch with your true feminine energy again and be ok with the fact that you ARE a beautiful woman.

And of course, itâs very important for you to stay safe, but donât let that stop you from being the woman that men are attracted to. (This article shows you how to make a man want you and only you)

Failure Reason 2

Women have been raised to be masculine by our society.

Many women today live a very masculine life. They take on a masculine job, speak in a masculine tone of voice and act and hold themselves as if they are competing with other men.

Thereâs nothing wrong with this by the way, itâs a womanâs birthright to achieve the results she wants; in fact, just as good and better results than men are.

However⦠being in the masculine energy will instantly kill the attraction that most men will feel for you. Why? Because theyâll feel like youâre just like another âguyâ friend and there would simply be no polarity.

And he will pick up on this instantly.

Think about a time when a man was eyeing you, you could feel him eyeing you, and you could feel him trying to get your attention, but you were repelled. Now, you may not even be consciously aware of it, but you had already – within the first 1 second of seeing him – picked up on his energy and make a judgement about whether he was suitable or not.

These reactions are wired in to us as women. We simply cannot be mating with every single male â he has to be giving off signs of having good genes, and great mate potential.

Men do this to you too. And when you are in your masculine, men feel it.

For attraction to occur between a man and a woman, there has to be the masculine-feminine polarity. And without it, you can still be great friendsâ¦but achieving attractionâ¦is impossible.

So, most of us women (who have learnt to get a good paying job, secure that careerâ¦etc) need to come back to our feminine core and spirit when it comes to men. Itâs that femininity that sometimes so many women have lost touch with⦠that will be most attractive to men.

This is not to say you need to give up your career, it just means that you canât always live in your masculine mode all the time. You have to achieve a balance between femininity and getting results in your career/business.

(There Are Exactly 7 Signs That A Woman is Perceived as Low Value to Men. Do You Know What They Are? (& How to Avoid Them Like the Plague)? Click here to find out right now…)

Failure Reason 3 

Women Donât Understand What Naturally Triggers Men to Feel Attraction!

You see⦠we live in a society where most of us are utterly confused! Research shows that all of us are being bombarded with over 10,000 sales messages every single day. No wonder we sometimes get unsure about what to do! Thereâs simply too much clutter around us!

Have you noticed that common-sense has become rather uncommon?

And worst still, a lot of us women have lost our natural âwomanlyâ intuition and we are confused about what actually makes men attracted to us and what doesnât make men attracted to us.

With all the assault of advertising in this 21st century, theyâve really tried to confuse us and keep us feeling insecure so that we collapse under their control. (Iâm talking about the media here, the big corporate industries who only care about their bottom line of salesâ¦)

Itâs time for us women to take back control and empower ourselves. Itâs time for us to re-discover these âNatural Attraction Triggersâ that men are genetically hardwired to react to.

Once we discover and put these âNatural Attraction Triggersâ to use, us (the lucky ones) will never run out of men who are attracted to us, who want to be in committed relationships with us, and want to take care of us for life.

(What Is The One Specific Emotional Trigger Within Every Single Man in this World That Inspires Him to WANT to Commit to One Woman, Want to Take Care of Her, Worship Her and Only Her? Click here to find out right now…)

And by the way, you donât have to be âphysically giftedâ.

Attraction Triggers work regardless of who you are, (or who youâre NOT), your age, your height and weight, regardless of whether you think you have the ability to attract men or not.

They work because it is genetically hardwired in men to seek out these specific triggers. (Click here to find out what attracts men naturally with the eBook on 17 Attraction Triggers)

These âAttraction Triggersâ are like natureâs scientific laws, as consistent and as reliable as the law of gravity. It doesnât matter if you apply them, or if I apply them, they will work.

And if you do apply them, then they will work for you as well.

Men are âGenetically Hardwiredâ to React to these Attraction Triggers⦠(Click here to find out the 17 Attraction Triggers that triggers a man’s attraction naturally)

Itâs a fact. Us human beings have all evolved from earlier, more ancient forms of life. Starting as sea creatures, and lizards, to mammals to what we are now – homo-sapiens.

You donât have to like that fact, but youâll have to live with it.

But hereâs whatâs interestingâ¦because we have evolved from these earlier creatures, we all have parts of what psychologists call âthe lizard brainâ inside of us. Thatâs right, every single one of us has it.

And this lizard brain is responsible for our survival and reproductive instincts. It is there to make sure that us as a species will live on and pass our genetic information on to the next generation.

None of us could have ever arrived here in the 21st century if we didnât have (and use) our survival and reproductive instincts. (In fact, those animals which do not have these instincts have become long extinct! Because they cannot survive without the lizard brain.)

Think about the smell of a female dog in season. That smell would attract and catch the attention of all the male dogs in the area. The male dogs would get so excited that they would literally fight over who will mate with the female.

This is not because they choose to fight, itâs because theyâre genetically programmed to do so in order to mate with the female.

Imagine the queen bee⦠once she matures, she flies around on her âmating flightsâ and emits her queen pheromone or scent that attracts many different (up to 50) male bees to mate with her.

This scent is a trigger for males to get excited and pay the ultimate attention to the queen bee (because the males die after mating. Sad, but true).

So we can say the same about human males having these triggers for attraction. There is a list of âAttraction Triggersâ that will automatically make menâs blood boil with excitement.

Let me just give you a quick example of an âAttraction Triggerâ for men

The way you walk (your gait), can instantly make men desire you, but unfortunately, most women donât know the first thing about the âattractive feminine walkâ.

You see⦠Itâs all about the hips.

Theyâve done research and what the scientists have found is that when men look at a woman walking, the first place their eyes landâ¦is on the womanâs hips.

And instantly, the man gathers information about how fertile the woman is, as well as her genetic structure. And it is through this information that he will either be âturned onâ or not.

You may already know that the wider a womanâs hips are, the higher the chances of her being fertile and having a successful child birth, and therefore the appearance of wide hips are a strong âAttraction Triggerâ for men.

No wonder on the catwalk, the stick-thin hipless âsupermodelsâ walk with that overly-exaggerated hip shunt to give the âillusionâ of having wider hips. (Even though these skinny supermodels have as much of a set of hips as a match stickâ¦)

But the good news is that you can use this knowledge also to make yourself more desirable. (Iâve gone into a lot more detail about this and also included exercises for you to implement to master this in my program, so if you want to know more, keep readingâ¦)

Of course there are many other potent âAttraction Triggersâ and together (when used synergistically), a manâs reproductive instincts will kick in and I will guarantee his blood will pump faster âuncontrollablyâ underneath his skin.

It doesnât have to make any logical sense, it just works.

And for all the skeptical people, yes, there have been literally dozens of proper scientific research to show and prove how effectively these triggers actually work. (And the truth is, all these attraction triggers are based on our instinctive need to reproduce, and are literally hardwired into us.)

These attraction triggers are proven by science, tested in the field, and ready for you to implement today to instantly make yourself the epicenter of desire in any room.

(What is the ONE thing you can say to ANY man that will capture his attention, trigger his curiosity and make him hang onto every word you say! Click here to find out right now…)

So hereâs what I have done for youâ¦

Iâve done all the research for you and Iâve condensed everything down to 17 of the most powerful, most usable and actionable âAttraction Triggersâ so that you can immediately use them to make men trip over themselves with desire for you.

Iâve put down what these triggers are, and most importantly, the action steps for you to take right now to use these triggers to not only get the attention of any man you choose, but also to put him under your âlove spellâ!

Think about becoming at least 5 times as attractive as you are right now, doubling your sex appeal, and having a hypnotic influence over any man.

(By the way, I want to teach you 5 secrets to having your man fall deeply in love with you and beg you to be his one and only. These 5 secrets are inside of my brand new DVD, and right now it’s FREE. Click HERE to get yourself a copy before they run out!)


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