Got sent a link to a Daily Mail article today…on the tragedy of somebodyâs dental veneers of all things. Then, I see to the right of the page an article of photos about 61 year old Bruce Willis filming an ad with tonnes of young, gorgeous, sexy women barely clothedâ¦
The writer used words like â….But Bruce Willis is also a man. While shooting an Italian commercial, the 61 year old looked like a kid in a candy store as he got close to a gorgeous womanâ¦.at one point she kissed him on the cheek and at another he went in for a smooch tooâ¦â
Yeah, so the writer is trying to – like lots of media outlets – capitalise on the fears that keep women stressed out, small and low value.
Well. Actually no, thanks.
They canât do that. Shut up is what I was mumbling to the computer screen.
Bruce Willis – without anyone knowing, could also be a very happily married man. Not every boy is raised to be a serial cheating liar. Many men are really in love with their woman and happy to be faithful because they are genuinely fulfilled.
And just because thereâs attractive women everywhere doesnât mean a man is destined to betray his woman. After all, it could just be very much like observing pretty cakes. One has pink icing and the other has blue. Wee ha.
Donât let the world make you think that you should never trust anyone. Thereâs a time for not trusting anyone and thereâs a time for relaxing and giving people a chance. Many men, really just want to do the right thing.
I was angry that the writer (being a woman) was willingly triggering other womenâs insecurity over and over, just for the sake of it. And the goal, like many, is wanting other women to stay feeling insecure. To manufacture insecurities in other women and make their lives more fear driven and miserable – seems evil, but it exists – often.Â
The writer writes that just so that the daily mail could continue on as the daily mail – a trashy, sleazy British magazine that women love and hate.
Admittedly, life can be boring without these gossip columns – what would a bored mom or lonely college student read to fill the void? The Financial Times?
This is one reason why we have an epidemic of beautiful, naturally high value women who line up to buy excessive amounts of toxic, expensive makeup, or even go under the knife in order to keep themselves from feeling the pain of getting older.
Women go under the knife for new breasts – which is one of the biggest violations of womanhood Iâve ever known. The idea of replacing ones breasts purely for aesthetic reasons is a violent act – and a violent act of rejection of our feminine body as it is. Can you believe we are now living in a world where this is a norm and something to be congratulated upon?Â
I am generalising here – I understand that many women undergo this procedure for many reasons – not just aesthetics.
And yet – I always wonder what our breasts and bodies are thinking when we do that boob job? What does it think? How does it react?
Is it saying âWhy? Why wasnât I enough? Wasnât I functioning properly for you? But Iâm here and I am your breasts and I feel womanly, so why donât you also feel womanly? Plus, I can really nourish and comfort many babies if you chose to have them in this lifetime.â
It doesnât have to be like this. We live in a world full of people who profit from our insecurity. How do they do that? They make us more insecure.
Itâs not only for profit.
One thing I believe we could try to remember is that people who are insecure/fearful are much more easily kept down. People who donât feel high value; worthy and confident are much easier to control.
In my country, I see this everywhere – people pressured into keeping small and average, people are not keen to question certain medical procedures (as compared to say Europe), people being pressured into medical procedures when there was actually nothing wrong with them to begin with.
Our bodies are always trying to do the best they can for us.
Our friends can also try to keep us down; if we have terrible friends to begin with. Friends can try to stop us from being brilliant – so that they donât have to feel their own terror, lose us, or meet a higher standard.
Sure, we all have fears, and I do believe in connecting with people’s fears to meet them where they are at – sometimes we just need to be understood in order to feel free to branch out from a fearful state.Â
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The thing is that people do operate from fear – most people are making most of their decisions from fear.
However, as a customer myself, and as a note to you…I wonder if you would consider that there is nothing more wrong than feeling like you werenât born enough.
We are all necessary in this story of life; we all have beautiful gifts that are unique to give to the world. We each have beautiful and personal art inside of us, ready to be expressed every day.
We each care. Sometimes more than we are willing to show.
We are each intelligent and intuitive – from the day we are born. Only, that intuition cleverly gets pushed out of us, so that we end up dumber. When we were never meant to be.
But our society oppresses us by triggering our fears and keeping us down – Â so that we end up happy to sit back, be small, feel like weâre not enough, and as a consequence – we are unable to take responsibility for ourselves and our decisions, let alone take responsibility for our relationships and our children.
We forget that we are brilliant – and instead, we hand over responsibility to other people, or we are content with blaming others for our situation.
In dating this is obvious, too. Sure, the dating world is tough; that is how it is. But to blame everything on men? That is to say that we are willingly lying to ourselves.
We are all born enough. Thatâs the condition of birth; we are enough. Itâs everything else and everybody else who encourages us to live life as if we are small.
Isnât it paralysing to live with insecurity?
Isnât it violent to be given a chance at life; only to live it as if our unique soul were absolutely nothing?
Actually, you are everything. Especially considering most everyone around you is living and decision making from fear. You matter; you are everything.
If not for you, then for everybody else. You are everything. Thatâs the rule. Otherwise you wouldnât have been born.
I believe we have a responsibility to other women around us to feel like we are enough.
One necessary path to becoming high value is to trust in yourself to take responsibility. Start taking responsibility for yourself, for your current situation, for your relationships.
Be OK with wherever you are at. Like I had to be when I was homeless, a face full of acne, boyfriend cheating on me and ignoring me, having no good friends and an eating disorder to boot.
What I have learned in recent years (the painful way), is that I really have no choice, (if I want my family to not live a mediocre life), but to take a disproportionately larger responsibility than everybody else in any situation that means something. I canât expect to put everything in the hands of others.
Itâs me taking responsibility; or else.
And, this is no different to me deciding many years ago, to take responsibility for my relationship situation, for my sense of self worth, and for my choices.
Itâs problematic to do this though – as most of us learn that when we take responsibility, others are sometimes ready to blame us. Others are ready to take value from us; because we are high value.
But is there really any other way to live?
Why would we waste our life living small, and not taking responsibility?
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One disclaimer to staying connected to all of life – if you are in an abusive situation; you will perhaps benefit from shutting off. Please do not connect for the sake of connecting and pleasing because you are afraid to lose a man who is abusing you. As always, seek professional advice, and especially advice from someone who truly cares, if there is that someone. Leave a comment here if you are unsure – there are so many women reading here who are smarter than I and who can give you good input.
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|Title||How Can One Be High Value In A Society That Keeps Us Insecure?|
|Date||May 26, 2016 8:19 AM UTC (7 years ago)|
|Blog||The Feminine Woman|
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