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indication of interest

Indication of Interest (IOI)

Can be active or passive IOIs.

Active examples:

  • She re-initiates conversations when you stop talking (So….)
  • She giggles and/or laughs at your jokes, even if they’re not funny
  • She touches you
  • She tries to get rapport and build comfort with you
  • If eye contact happens from a distance, she holds it for a second
  • She holds eye contact for longer periods of time when she speaks with you
  • She smiles at you
  • While walking by, she turns her body toward you or brushes against you
  • She uses a functional opener on you or in any way initiates a conversation
  • She interrupts your conversation from nearby or laughs at something you said
  • She asks for personal details about you (name, age, job)
  • She compliments you
  • She is playful and tries to challenge you
  • She's punching your arm but laughing
  • She plays with her hair while talking to you
  • She mentions your girlfriend without knowing if you actually have one
  • When she has to go to the bathroom, she comes back
  • She avoids mentioning her boyfriend
  • When she says or does something, she looks at you to see your reaction
  • She looks at you from the side, to hide the fact that she's looking
  • She introduces you to friends
  • She buys you a drink
  • She calls you a player or a heart-breaker
  • On her way out, she re-approaches you to tell you that she is leaving (Get her #)
  • On your way out, she asks you where you are going (Invite her)
  • She invents reasons to be near you, interact with you, or have Isolation with you
  • She pushes up her breasts (sexual escalation)

Passive examples:
  • She stands nearby (proximity)
  • Her friends leave and she stays
  • She moves to see you and hangs with you for extended periods
  • If you move she follows you or waits for you
  • She doesn't flinch or pull back if you get close
  • When your bodies touch in some way she doesn’t break the contact
  • She doesn't resist when you escalate physically (or she gives token resistance to avoid feeling like a slut)

The most important IOIs are:
  • She giggles
  • She touches you
  • She re-initiates conversation when you stop talking

A special kind of IOI is an Approach Invitation, which is simply a cue to approach. The most typical approach invitation is a smile with some coy looking away followed by more smiling. However, there are other more subtle Approach Invitations women may give you.


indication of interest

Indication of Interest (IOI)

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