I'm a nineteen year-old university student that also happens to have a penis and I am so glad that I am on the subreddit because it's true: all of the things that our society, parents and friends have told us about about dating/life is wrong.

After lurking around and reading the sidebar articles, I have come to realize some harsh truths...

  • Women do care about your looks. Being physically fit is extremely important because they are hardwired to be attracted to fit men.
  • Being a "Nice Guy" won't work because doing so means you're not embracing your masculine energy that women are attracted to and putting them on a pedestal which in turn causes them to look down on you.
  • As a man, it is your responsibility that your needs are met, this includes your sexual needs. If you want something, whether it be a certain career, material possessions and very importantly, sex, then it is up to you to go get it. Don't wait for it to come to you. (This is especially true because I once hooked up with a girl at a foam party. The way I did it? I ACTUALLY FUCKING WENT UP TO HER AND MADE MY INTENTIONS CLEAR...)

I have been reading some books on how to overcome Nice Guy Syndrome and I can comfortably say that my life has already begun to improve for the better. After being cheated on by my two girlfriends in high school and getting walked over in life, I also realized that I must have a life of my own before somebody else comes in and consumes all of my time.

A little bit about myself: I stand at 5'10" and only weigh roughly 138 pounds(yes, I'm weak and skinny as shit, but I'm doing basic exercises such as pushups, situps, dips, squats, etc. to become a normal strength). Girls have told me that I'm "good-looking", but I'm pretty sure that is a euphemism for "You're a beta." I don't masturbate nor look at pornography anymore because it's fuckin' stupid. I'm a pretty smart guy(I'm an actuarial student with a 3.9 GPA), but that's not really an attractive trait in men. I also play trumpet in our university's marching band. Back in high school, I used to suffer from severe Nice Guy Syndrome. I'm nowhere near where I want to be, but I am like a frickin' model compared to my past self...I'm not the most confident guy and I'm quite awkward in social situations because I never really had any experience as a kid.

Any other things I should work on? Any other red pills that I should swallow? What blue pills should I keep an eye out for?