Without doubt, in the West, and probably some European countries, men have been conditioned to hide their sexual nature, and to some extent male sexuality has been criminalized. I feel that where I live, male expression of sexual desire is considered rude/sexist/misogynistic and most men who have been brought up in a blue pill family (like myself) have been conditioned for 20+ years to hide their sexual nature.
I am a very sexual person but do not know how to frame my sexual nature in a social setting. All the sidebar material on here says to have a sexual frame when picking up girls. I understand the importance of this. But nothing has ever talked about how to actually do this.
I get so fucking nervous acting sexual when I am gaming out of fear of being labelled rude or a creep. The idea of leading a girl and showing sexual interest first is so against my inner dialogue it's affecting my ability to game women.
e.g.- When I was out last night this girl in my social circle was looking hot, but all my friends were around and I was like fuuuccckkk this I'm not gaming her in front of my friends they'll think I'm a try-hard.
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Can anyone give me some practical tips to start framing my sexual nature in front of women?
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Also, how do I get over this deep seeded idea that being sexual is a bad thing?
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