Does TRP have a theory for why women who are virgins/have few sexual partners = less promiscuous

[deleted] · 2018-06-30T15:44:19+00:00

High n-count = decreased ability to pair bond

Aralant · 2018-06-30T14:26:10+00:00

Chemicals I'd think. Just like some men can have low testosterone women can have stuff that brings them out of the norm.

TheDreadnought1 · 2018-06-30T16:14:42+00:00

Women being less or more promiscuous (having more sexual partners and being more sexually "liberal") at the beginning depends on how they are created, if they have a present and strong father, how religious they are, how society rewards or not this behavior, etc.

Once they are indeed promiscuous and have lots of sexual partners, the capacity to pair bond degrades. They have several rides on the male human equivalents of Ferraris and Lamborghinis, melting in the dopamine rushes of novelty and attention of high value men.

Once their value starts to fade, and that Ferraris and Lamborghinis don't want to settle (and they never will for a used up whore), her baby rabies will consume her and force her to settle and have kids. But she had tasted this high value men, and when she has to settle to a less valuable one, that's not pleasant.

She wants to feel desired by that high SMV men again. She wants the novelty again, the fun, the tingles. Even if the man she settles with is not as bad, let's say a BMW, it's still not the same.

The girl that's not promiscuous from the beginning hasn't experienced that, and doesn't have that craving and neediness for this attention and variation of partners. She has no car, she walks to places. With the pressure of religion, strong parents and the society already internalized in her, when that same BMW offers her more than she has ever had, she is pleasured to give herself entirely and fulfill her instinctual dreams of having children and being led by a strong man. It doesn't mean that she won't ever cheat under any circumstances, but it would be harder, and she wouldn't be "looking for trouble" nearly as much as the promiscuous girl.

That's more or less the theory endorsed by TRP, with some research to back it up, and as you can tell, I agree with it.

Bruchibre · 2018-07-03T06:52:43+00:00

I guess it's too late to update the title?

Some of my Beta friends see it like "she's had lots of partners in the past, she's had her experience, she'll be less tempted to look somewhere else" --> oh god how wrong can they be :)

The more partner a girl has, the more she knows she has options, the more she knows that grass is greener on the other side of the fence, the more she knows how good it is to discover somebody new, etc etc.

The same applies to guy btw... but who cares, we are guys.

room_303 · 2018-06-30T17:55:23+00:00

I'm 32, my 25 year old LTR was a virgin when we met, shes full Italian, youngest of 4 sisters, no tattoos, strong family upringing, strict parents (dad), grew up in a town close to a big city so wasn't exposed to the slutty nature of clubbing culture and the like.

rayrayray1234 · 2018-06-30T15:48:46+00:00

Less n count usually means they know they’re higher worth. Since they’re high value they can lock down an alpha and as result don’t ride the carousel as hard

GeuseyBetel · 2018-06-30T17:25:53+00:00

Dumbest question ever. You can figure this out just by thinking with your brain. Okay, fine, I'll help you. Follow my instructions:

Step 1: get a dictionary, or go to dictionary.com

Step 2: find the word "promiscuous" in the dictionary

Step 3: read the definition of the word "promiscuous"

Step 4: re-read your question

Step 5: go back to step 3, and repeat, until you realize the tautological nature of the answer to your question.

dumbass :-)

Title	Does TRP have a theory for why women who are virgins/have few sexual partners = less promiscuous
Author	GeuseyBetel
Upvotes	4
Comments	12
Date	June 30, 2018 2:22 PM UTC (5 years ago)
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