I want to take my most well behaved plate out to a spa, it's a pretty expensive spa so it's not something I can assume she can pay for herself. I want to take her there because I want to, it's a spa I've been to before when I was an AFC and in a bad place in my life, it really helped me relax and refocus and I've always dreamed of bringing a girl in there. It might sounds bluepilled but I want to fulfill that "dream" just as a symbolic gesture to the effort my past self has put into improving, and not because I want to give the girl in particular validation. Yes I've already had sex with her multiple times I'm not her orbiter in denial, yes I have other plates I have sex with she's not my oneitis in denial. Now how can I offer paying for her tickets without coming across as a beta bux?