I was my LTRs first boyfriend and took her virginity. After 7 months I realized her lifestyle, habits etc were not what I was looking for. Her mom takes advantage of her while out of town on work 75% of the month and makes her stay home to look after her young sister. Her mom pays for everything and she hasn't worked in years etc etc.

Anyways, I blocked her main number right from the get go after the goodbye, and periodically her friend will message me asking me shit, berating me etc.

After a few hard weeks I thought things were on track to going back to normal when I just get texted asking to message her because she needs a friend.

I'm at the point where I miss her deeply (grass is greener always just remembering the good times) and it's super hard not to message back and go back to regular wild sex.

Currently in a scarcity mindset as well, but I did just meet a new girl who like likely DTF soon thought nothing special to look at.

Whenever I get texted like this It gets me down because I am reminded that my former LTR is probably sad as fuck, as I was probably the only exciting / fun thing going on in her life right now (which is one of the reasons I decided to end).