Isn't the ability to pass a shit-test basically having such an acute understanding of social-dynamics and social-skills that you are able to navigate the social situation and succeed? So then in the way women are testing you, then are testing your social skills and competency. They love a man who has a solid grasp on social-skills, understands the "right" things to say and the "wrong" things to say. There is a lot of power and control in being able to hold a succinct and interesting conversation. How much do you guys think a girl a testing your social competency when she is chatting with you, say on tinder/bumble?