What do you do when a girl starts complaining about her ex or her bf?

FixYourselfFirst · 2018-07-27T12:30:35+00:00

Tell her to read the sidebar.

TehJimmyy · 2018-07-27T12:32:37+00:00

Next her and move on to the next girl.

Women love to complain about the guys they're fucking to guys they aren't fucking. Don't get yourself put in the male-girlfriend bin with the next one.

chachaChad · 2018-07-27T12:34:39+00:00

Amused Mastery... tease her about it and move on. Make it sexual...

Do not freak out. That's the absolutely most unattractive thing you can do.

Playerslife4me · 2018-07-27T12:57:37+00:00

I've always told them they deserve it

bluefingerblue · 2018-07-27T14:16:31+00:00

Just don’t engage it. Change the subject to something totally random.

Her: “my ex used to blah blah blah”

You: looking at some other chick during her monologue about her ex “did you know daddy longlegs have penises, so technically they’re not spiders. You look like you already knew that though.”

RedSkeller · 2018-07-27T14:20:20+00:00

Suddenly my phone and other activities become much more interesting.

WolfofAllStreetz · 2018-07-27T16:15:57+00:00

Tease her, do not act like you care even if you do. I don't want to listen to that shit.

Or option #2 is to tell her about how your ex was wild and you plugged all her holes.

poisedStygian · 2018-07-27T20:11:34+00:00

"my rate for a therapy session starts at $300/hr"

[deleted] · 2018-07-27T16:34:38+00:00

"blah blah blah i see your mouth moving, but it's not on my cock so i don't know what it's saying"

enderbeannn · 2018-07-27T17:16:45+00:00

Is it wrong to just say "I don't care about this"?

microwavemasterrrace · 2018-07-27T20:54:12+00:00

> but some people think since women thrive off emotion, if you’re trying to sleep with her you should let her continue

whoever thinks this is completely fucking clueless. So you are just going to let her complain about her boyfriend to you? This is wrong on so man levels, but let me lay it out for you:

You are her emotional tampon (does it at all remind you of high school when girls would always complain about chad being such an asshole, but would fuck him on a whim if they could? Also, remember all the beta orbiters being there for those girls to absorb all their problems?)
You are being a weak, sneaky beta male. If you are trying to put distance between her and her boyfriend by getting her to trash talk him, it's because you clearly can't compete with him in terms of personality alone. It's like playing Call of Duty campaign mode and taking cover for 3 hours so that your allied AI can kill the enemy AI without you losing any health points. It is so low and such a non-masculine trait.
As others have pointed out, if she is complaining about someone to you, she's not fucking you.

If this was your de facto approach to this situation before posting here, I suggest you really go over the basics of TRP again. Good luck

Title	What do you do when a girl starts complaining about her ex or her bf?
Author	JW_2
Upvotes	4
Comments	20
Date	July 27, 2018 12:22 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/92c1eh/what_do_you_do_when_a_girl_starts_complaining/
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