I'm talking to this girl now and boy is she a narcissist, bragging about how she's got a long line of guys wanting to meet her.

Anyway, I've done a great job shutting her down and she spams me and seems super intrigued and we've only been chatting for a day. I'm just pondering on how to ask her out so I can fuck her brains out. My feeling is that the second you ask a girl out, the ball's no longer in your court. If she says "I can't (insert day)" - she's got the upper hand.

So how does one go about it without losing frame?