"When are you going to take me out on a real date?"

joseremarque · 2016-06-06T03:41:24+00:00

"Why? Are we dating?"

or

"I was about to ask you the same thing."

or

"lol"

verily_rp · 2016-06-06T03:22:56+00:00

Nothing more than kissing and light fondling on both dates, and she would stop me repeatedly when I pushed for more.

She's not attracted to you.

she asks the question about taking her on a "real" date

And now she's trying to put you into the beta box. You have three options.

(1) hard next

(2) nuke her hamster

(3) Game her: "I only date girls that put out first"

Keep abundance mentality in mind.

Redredditer4 · 2016-06-06T04:03:47+00:00

You took a bitch to a PLAYOFF GAME and didn't get anything? Fuck man!

yumyumgivemesome · 2016-06-06T03:14:03+00:00

A girl once asked me that. All of our dates included a blowjob in my car and a ride home.

You're doing way too much for her

TomFoo · 2016-06-06T04:50:12+00:00

"Sure. Come over my place. Bring a bottle of wine."

fnordsnord · 2016-06-06T14:55:15+00:00

This girl is already bucking for the Girlfriend Upgrade, and you haven't even plated her yet.

I'd go radio silent for a few days, then invite her for coffee or drinks after work, but not on Friday or Saturday. Use like kino and bring your "charm" game, but keep it short, no more than an hour or so, and then call it a night.

See what her response is. Do NOT spend a lot of money trying to impress her or make her feel special.

CypherWolf21 · 2016-06-06T11:07:26+00:00

[insert date] we"ll go to [shittiest fast food joint] and you can pick anything off the dollar menu. Only the finest for M'lady. Bonus points for fedora tipping. At the end.

soccerbum312 · 2016-06-06T19:39:31+00:00

I might respond with "you haven't shown me you deserved it yet" or "what makes you think you deserve it?"

xertlust · 2016-06-06T22:46:57+00:00

Go minimal. Certainly not a Fri or Sat night. For game three tell her you're taking her to dinner, then surprise her with some Taco Bell. At your place. For the game.

Get out of the mindset that you need to impress her. She needs to impress you. Maybe skittles for desert.

Title	"When are you going to take me out on a real date?"
Author	yumyumgivemesome
Upvotes	2
Comments	18
Date	June 6, 2016 2:55 AM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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