I almost never cum from a bj, is there anything I can do about this?

fakeplastictrees87 · 2016-06-08T15:16:01+00:00

just jerk off in her mouth

JackGetsIt · 2016-06-08T17:53:49+00:00

No fap; and have her work on technique, hand use, and a good rhythm.

prodigy2throw · 2016-06-08T19:56:41+00:00

A good bj is just a glorified handjob. Tell her to jerk it while sucking.

Krunjar · 2016-06-08T15:44:39+00:00

Maybe you don't deathgrip but you might need to go fast to cum, faster than she can blow you. So maybe try going slower and get used to that.

Eyes_Of_The_Dragon · 2016-06-08T17:35:32+00:00

The only time I ever came from just a bj involved a lot of buildup beforehand. Usually I need her to use her hands a lot too.

[deleted] · 2016-06-08T16:09:27+00:00

Pay attention to every sensation when jerking off. Seriously. Become conscious of what your dick is feeling and make that your primary focus. No judgments or thinking, just feel it out.

Use porn sparingly. Use fantasy sparingly. If you aren't horny at all then break out the porn to get your engines going.

Use a fleshlight if you can afford one. This is awesome for helping with sensitivity issues. If you are too sensative it helps you last longer. If you have the death grip and lost sensativity from jerking off then you should only allow yourself to cum in a fleshlight or pussy. Your death grip will go away and sensativity will return. You'll also perform better, stay harder, last longer, and it can help with performance anxiety as well since you've already practiced.

If you actually do this stuff then you have a really good chance of fixing this. If you don't, then you don't.

[deleted] · 2016-06-08T16:36:34+00:00

I've always had trouble with this unless a girl really gets her technique down

Until then, I typically think about things I like that turn me on or w/e and that helps

idgaf- · 2016-06-08T16:21:57+00:00

I'm dealing with the same stuff. It all comes down to retraining your nervous system.

No porn or masturbation.
No orgasm from real sex at first, the less you cum the better.
Meditation / knowing how to relax and enjoy.
Repetition (like with an LTR), getting used to how she does it, training her to do it right / a certain way.
Supplements that increase semen volume (makes your hornier and more ready to cum).

sharp7 · 2016-06-08T19:07:38+00:00

I have issues too. In the end you have to focus really fucking hard. Think about the smuttiest shit you possibly can. Mentally force yourself to cum.

bsutansalt · 2016-06-08T20:07:49+00:00

Stop jerking off.

Apexk9 · 2016-06-09T00:07:31+00:00

Different positions. If you're cut from a young age it's hard as your nerves just arnt as sensative . If you ain't cut then does your foreskin retract fully?

Have her go different positions to suck your dick. You'll find the one that hits the spot it can be slight changes too they make a difference

Mastros34 · 2016-06-09T16:19:58+00:00

Most woman are horrible at blow jobs. Find a chubby woman and she'll suck you off like your dicks made of gold.

unlearnNorms · 2016-06-08T15:30:49+00:00

r/nofap might help

Title	I almost never cum from a bj, is there anything I can do about this?
Author	RPthrowaway123
Upvotes	13
Comments	38
Date	June 8, 2016 3:05 PM UTC (7 years ago)
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