Summary: Chivalry is dead and I killed it.
First I must say I'm from a shitty, stuck between traditional and modern third world country, a dollar is x3.4 more valuable here and we are all students on daddy bux, restaurant choice and invitation wasn't mine either so none were my guest.
We went out, 2 males and 3 females to a restaurant, none of us have interest in each other we were friends since the start of the college this year and we participated summer school, that meal together was a celebration of the successful year. When the addition came I put what I ate plus 2 dollars as asking for change would be weird and I saw other dude started to nod and make weird eyes to me implying I should pay more as he was putting half of the total bill while girls weren't even budging. After some awkward silence he said something along the lines "we gentlemen aren't going to let the ladies pay are we?". I said its 2016, woman are equals to us and should be independent. One of the "ladies" started to cry telling she doesn't have that much money, I said you should've have said it first so we would choose a more suitable place but now there isn't much I can do. The other two went in pride mode and paid whats left after dude's %50 and my own share which was around %20 and still had the nerve to say don't worry we'll cover you while the dude was the one covering for her. I drove them home in total silence and since 2 days there are zero messages on our group chat where normally there was shit ton of messages daily.
TL;DR: I'm the selfish prick of my friend group. AMA!