Should I ever go to clubs if I don't drink and can't dance at all ?

CoyoteMiyamoto · 2021-07-02T00:40:30+00:00

Don't go clubbing. That's like one of the worst places for picking up good women. Most of the time they're either hunting for some idiots who can provide VIP opportunities or free drinks. Plus the music is way too loud. Yeah you can ask some washed up broad if she wants to come home with you. It's fucking easy if her friends are attractive, too. They'll encourage her to have some fun with a dog like you.

If your peers do something you don't like doing, you look for other people. I guarantee that you won't have a good time if you feel the negative pull of the group. You'll be on edge and everybody, especially the women there, will feel it. Don't drink, don't go clubbing.

If there are any cafés or even hookah lounges in your area, check them out. Unbelievable opportunities there. Ever talked to women in hookah lounges? Everybody is chill and they feel extra sexy with all the sweet smoke coming out of their mouths. The waitresses there are also hot most of the time.

Sudden-Complaint7037 · 2021-07-02T14:44:56+00:00

I don't get how a lot of guys obsess over clubbing. IMHO, the essence of clubbing is frying your brain with alcohol, blowing out your ears with loud music and picking up drunk girls of possibly the lowest quality you can find. Club girls make for bad plates and even worse LTRs.

So if you don't like clubbing, don't do it, you're really not missing out on much. Do daygame (by which I mean the genuine, non-autistic kind), go to other, less degenerate public ventures and gatherings, or look for women in your social circle.

However:

I however have quite High Social inhibition & I'm afraid of getting drunk because I would potentially embarrass myself or cross some socially unacceptable barriers or sth. At least that's one of my biggest fears

That's something you've got to work on. Social inhibition is bad. It sounds like you're probably college-aged, but as soon as you get out of school and into the workforce, social inhibition can and most likely will fuck up your career.

https://archive.is/kC4mg - Silent Majority: Social Anxiety

https://archive.ph/JhGEX - How Science Says You Should Overcome Social Anxiety

throwitdownman · 2021-07-02T16:27:21+00:00

Gonna heavily disagree with the others. GO. GO. GO. Even if you don’t drink or can’t dance! I got most of my lays, actual closes, via the club. On a bad night you’ll get a number, on a good an f-close is normal.

It was my ‘go-to’ to find a new plate pre-covid. Sometimes I’d take matches off dating apps for drinks and quickly transition to a club. Somehow girls become massive sluts in a club, and literally the sensible girl I was chatting with is now grinding me like a stripper.

I can’t dance, but luckily most girls have decent rhythm. All you have to do is to chat one up, and dance WITH her. When the club gets packed she’ll be on you due to space constraints and it’s easy kino.

For the drinking issue, nobody will bust your ass for not drinking. If your friends are getting shots, just walk away and return later, they’ll be having too much fun to remember. Or, just enter the club later like at 12am so everyone would’ve already drank and say you already drank as well.

Clubbing should be 90% finding/dancing with girl(s) and 10% drinking with friends. Clubs mark up their alcohol most people go in there to dance and get laid.

finessekawal · 2021-08-06T14:13:55+00:00

Go with friends. Have fun on your own or with the group. If anyone asks why you're not drinking tell them you're a DD or the group dad. Chicks love that shit hahah

Title	Should I ever go to clubs if I don't drink and can't dance at all ?
Author	ElXToro
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Date	July 1, 2021 11:02 PM UTC (2 years ago)
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