about two months ago I was going to meet up with a plate. however when finalizing the meet up she was being super short with her replies, seemed to me like she was close to 'falling off' so I just decided to stop responding in the middle of making plans. two months later she texts me

"are you alive"

send two messages back and forth and then ask if she wants to meet up again to which she replies

"Maybe, depends on if you ask me out then ditch me again"

so basically getting called out for flaking.

how would you respond?