Do women actually (medically) suddenly get "low sex drives" in their 20s or 30s as often as they claim? Or is it almost always an excuse she tells her man because he's become beta and lost the attraction?

InChargeMan · 2016-08-28T23:07:12+00:00

Scene 1-

"I'm sorry, I'm just not interested in sex anymore, I think it's hormones."

Enter Brad Pitt for some reason.

Scene 2-

Low hormones give way to loud whore moans.

vandaalen · 2016-08-28T21:46:06+00:00

Her sexdrive and how much she has got you pinned (in her perception) are inversely proportional.

http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/4790313.stm

InChargeMan · 2016-08-29T01:56:46+00:00

SIMILAR TOPIC:

Why don't most Women realize that they can keep their BB in-line just by swallowing some cum daily? That's literally all they have to do. TRP as a group probably wouldn't exist (to the same degree) if women would wise up. i.e. lose the battle to win the war.

I don't love taking out the trash, but I do it because it needs to get done. An obligatory BJ daily wouldn't fix all the other shit Beta men go through, but they would probably consider it par for the course and never think of an alternative.

VasiliyZaitzev · 2016-08-29T05:57:29+00:00

Their sex drive will recover once you dread them enough.

[deleted] · 2016-08-28T22:11:23+00:00

It's just loss of attraction.

[deleted] · 2016-08-28T23:38:51+00:00

Resources and security are more important than tingles because the former is more necessary to baseline survival, although they'd like and value both.

This is why they try to turn men beta and extract things. They then lose attraction, but they are alive and can then branch swing or fuck chad on the side.

It's funny that if they are serially monogamous that these supposed hormonal or other fluctuations regarding libido happen to exactly match the length of the relationship and the man's ongoing level of attraction. Women that get in short mini relationships with alphas are always having good sex and have high sex drives.

Edit: Also, women are different than men in that men will have sex with a woman that they are not especially attracted to and enjoy it. For most women, having sex with a beta they've lost attraction for is akin to sticking dog shit in their pussy.

getRedPill · 2016-08-29T01:32:54+00:00

Lies. She's considering leaving you, consciously or not. You are warned

elgordoloko · 2016-08-29T04:26:40+00:00

I think it can be an excuse. In my relationship, I don't ask to have sex or "warm her up" to the idea that I want to do it. I just grab my SO and take her to bed when I want to do it. The fact of making her do it without asking turns her on. Then she does whatever I want in bed.

Two or three times, she gave me the excuse of not feeling like it but I just continue and all of a sudden she is into it. The act of dominating her turns on a switch in her brain.

Not sure if it's just my wife or all women, but I don't ask anything. The less I care about her needs and what she wants in bed, the hotter she gets. When I leave out of town for a few days, she can't wait for me to get home to fuck.

nastynickdr · 2016-08-29T00:24:17+00:00

Loss of attraction. She has low libido with her partner, not just low libido.

[deleted] · 2016-08-29T00:33:12+00:00

Correct me if I'm wrong but there aren't many medical conditions that physically effect sex drive.

In Men there are things that can destroy your ability to crack wood, like smoking which damages blood vessels.

IIRC when Women have low sex drive Dr's have no real idea. I believe it's common to try and "spice things up" because it's not a medical reason.

I would think that in terms of evolution, a gene for low sex drive would have a low chance of being passed on.

W_O_M_B_A_T · 2016-08-29T03:09:26+00:00

She no longer has something to gain from him, and isn't concerned about losing anything she values by ignoring and disrespecting him.

If a guy who she feels has something better to offer (better genes, better brain, better stastus) shows up on her radar, you'd be astonished how she craves and fantasizes about him.)

Sensei_Hensei · 2016-08-29T10:57:30+00:00

Like another poster said women get secure in relationships. They become comfortable and sloppy. Watch that sex drive rise when you flirt with other women in front of her or disappear randomly for a few hours.

DrHolz · 2016-08-29T11:55:41+00:00

Tie her up, put a duct tape on her mouth, then fuck her brains out. If she asks why you did that, say I thought you were into bdsm

The__Tren__Train · 2016-08-29T00:45:24+00:00

She fucks around with the alphas, then settles down with a beta provider.

Of course she's not going to want to bang the beta provider lol... She's just hanging around long enough to maximize her payout and then she's out of there with her annuity.

thor_away92 · 2016-08-29T04:27:51+00:00

We're animals, we never lose sex drive.

faggotbrains · 2016-08-29T06:24:41+00:00

She will probably be also getting fat and putting on some solid pounds

trpthroway123 · 2016-08-29T14:27:12+00:00

TLDR; The bedroom dies because of the man, the woman assumes it's her, as the rationalization hamster won't let them stay with a man who can't satisfy them. They believe it must be their fault and their man must be great for tolerating it, no other man would (bunch of sex crazed pigs) thus justifying staying in the relationship.

Female libido actually increases in their 20's and 30's, peaking somewhere in the late 30's/early 40's. (Men peak somewhere in their late teens/early 20's, which should be no surprise to most of us).

Average age for divorce in the US is around 30, about the time where male libido drops below female libido. No coincidence there...

I'm sure the other guys out there taking home cougars can confirm, they're the easiest to get, the most up-front, and the most insatiable. Their fear of slut shaming is mostly gone, LMR and unwillingness to try new things is less likely. Freaky is an understatement. I love the newly single girls.

They all mention at some point how dead their bedroom was, how bored they were, how alive and sexy and horny they feel when some attractive younger guy hits on them or wants to take them home.

I posted a FR a while back about flirting with a mid-30's married receptionist at my doctor's office, who ate it up and later revealed to me that she hadn't had sex with her man in forever and was so horny after flirting with me that she went home and fucked him. She literally said "I thought I just had a low sex drive, I thought it was me, I thought it was my fault, thanks for proving it's not."

AWALT.

animalapemachine · 2016-08-31T03:30:12+00:00

http://www.healthywomen.org/content/article/whats-really-causing-your-low-sex-drive?context=healthcenter/60

JackGetsIt · 2016-08-29T12:59:02+00:00

It's not always because the husbands/bf's SMV is on the decline. It could also be because his interest in her is on the decline. Maybe he's spending more time away. At first it might go up but then it will hit rock bottom because she thinks he's over her even though they are still in a relationship. This triggers branch swinging behavior real quick and 'low libido' line is just a punishment to get the guy to come back to giving more affection.

Average age for divorce in the US is around 30, about the time where male libido drops below female libido. No coincidence there...♂