Hey guys,

So it seems to be common knowledge that at least half of the chicks at bars are carousel riders but I can’t seem to understand why that would make them flakey?

I will almost never hear back from a girl I met/kissed/whatever at a bar..

Is there some underlying reason here for their flakiness I am not seeing?

I assumed they think I’m a player as well cause I’m a “bar guy” so I’m good for fun but not dating. However, I’m not sure that I’ve got it right with that.

This is true of girls that will display high interest as well at the bar (assume I am not tooting my own horn with that)

For reference: I’m 24 and mostly go to college dance bars, so the girls in question are mostly college girls.

I posted this cause I thought it might help other guys like me on here figure out why they’re not attractive to the same girls outside the bar..

Appreciate any insights folks!