just got a girls snap off tinder. how soon should i start messaging her?

_ldh_ · 2022-05-18T22:54:26+00:00

You want to find the perfect point between striking when the iron is hot and not coming across as needy.

If you got her snap after a flirty conversation on the app and you can sense high interest on her behalf, go and set up a date pretty quickly.

If you got her snap after a less exciting conversation I’d probably give it more time so she doesn’t get needy vibes from you.

Either way, the length of time between getting the snap and messaging her is barely important in the grand scheme of things. I like to get a few numbers throughout the week and then start a conversation with all of them at the same time, I find it gives me an abundance mindset when texting them.

Nearby_Ad_5684 · 2022-05-18T23:38:07+00:00

Type of question is this? lol message whenever tf you have time. You should be busy and on your purpose you barley have time anyways.

Don’t spend time being a texting buddy set a goal and do it. If you wanna meet in a few days get to know her general interests and make the convo lead up to meeting up. Most of the getting to know each other should be in person.

Also, don’t spend time being so ‘busy’ you barley talk. They loose interested. Like someone said “strike when the iron is hot” but just respond when it feels right. No specific timing that’s just weird lmao.

Also, for me getting a girls number is WAY better than snap. Shows more balls bc most dudes go for snap. Also shows more interest on her side bc everyone gets the snap, not as many get a number. Good chance she’ll use you just for views in a few days IF that. Another plus with the number, I noticed a lot less “oh I just saw this” when you get the number vs snap.

DWS33_ · 2022-05-19T01:10:55+00:00

you should have gotten her number. the best time to message her is now. strike while the iron is hot.

Title	just got a girls snap off tinder. how soon should i start messaging her?
Author	SomeoneBehindThePC
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Date	May 18, 2022 10:09 PM UTC (1 year ago)
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