Sex on first date and immediate test responses after first date but delayed response after asking for second date. Long ass post but want to give details bear with me thanks in advance

319Skew · 2022-07-16T21:59:12+00:00

Too little info.

Could be you're cock #34 and she's got another prospect, weak pipe game, she's busy... Etc.

TheNaughtyGarbageMan · 2022-07-16T23:21:06+00:00

The fact that you came here and posted all of this shows you're way too invested and she probably senses it. Stop caring so much

BlackjointnerD · 2022-07-16T21:32:25+00:00

Maybe to make sure you arent a clinger or get attached to fast.

How long did you wait to ask for a second date?

MusicgoonV2 · 2022-07-16T21:58:23+00:00

Just ask for a second date. If you say something insecure like your comment on being too late. That will ensure that you will get shot down. Work on your confidence and decisiveness.

RelucBeam · 2022-07-27T22:37:03+00:00

She's a whore. Everything about your post, and especially her reply, screams whore.

Wrap up and kill any attachment feelings before they begin. Soon, you will start idolising her because you want that whore all to yourself

Be careful.

Oh and immediately stop arranging dates like they are work meetings. Don't give so much boring, predictable comfort. You are a desperate man. That's your first issue

No_Zone_911 · 2022-08-20T03:13:00+00:00

You already fucked her so now this gets easy.

Never reach out first.
When she reaches out say "hey it's great to hear from you. I'd love to see you. When are you free this week." (Corey Wayne).
Set up an ironclad date with a time and place. Make sure the date is just the two of you, at night, and starts somewhere where you can get a drink.
once date is scheduled Say "great I'll see you then".
Drop off. Stop texting and simping for validation.

Some possibilities: 1. She never reaches out. This means u never had a chance anyway. Accept it. Find a new one. 2. She won't schedule a date. Say "that's cool, maybe we'll catch up some other time". Ghost. Next time she reaches out try again ONE MORE TIME. if she refuses on time two, u never had a chance. Accept it. Find a new one. 3. She won't schedule a date but she tries to text you and chat with you. You are her male girlfriend orbiter. You never had a chance. Accept it. Find a new one. 4. after a date is scheduled she wants to keep chatting and texting. Pick a random time each day to respond to her texts as a chunk. Be relaxed and confident and funny. After a few texts back and forth drop off and say "gotta run, looking forward to seeing you soon". Ghost. Don't repeat until the next day.

Enjoy watching the power dynamic change and her going from playing you to you playing her.

Following the rules is tough if you don't have frame. If you find yourself breaking rules... Don't make excuses for yourself. Remind yourself that your frame sucks and stick to the rules.

Find at least one different girl to practice on so when this one ghosts you , you don't freak out (book of pook)

Peace be with you my thirsty brother