How do you respond to women asking you out?

TheDreadnought1 · 2017-09-01T18:41:13+00:00

i dont understand these types of posts about situations and "frame".... wtf. a woman asking you out and accepting isnt losing frame for fucks sake. its a woman that obviously see's your SMV and doesn't want to miss the opportunity (attraction level is extremely high for a woman to take that risk of rejection).

there is too much nonsense in here about frame and being so fucking alpha that pretty much at this point you shouldnt even interact with women anymore at all because one word out of your mouth and you are entering her frame. fuck.

god damn rambos, i tell ya.

IMPROVE YOURSELF. then better things happen in your life. If women are asking you out, why are you questioning anything? stop worrying so much and getting so wrapped in every LITTLE thing.

TRP-Works · 2017-09-01T18:39:30+00:00

Personally I would accept the invitation BUT I would decide what to do. That way I'm still leading and taking the pussy that's being thrown at me.

Downhere_Seeds · 2017-09-01T19:27:47+00:00

Hell yea, and let her pay too. If she asks you out and pays, she has walked right into your frame and is proudly wearing it. She'll bring you sandwiches at work and let you stick in her butt. Try it.

StrongAffordance · 2017-09-01T22:48:08+00:00

It depends on the context.

One time I had a girl tell me, "I'm taking you out for coffee.". I was like what the fuck.

If I accepted the frame would be utterly forfeited to her so I declined.

StrongAffordance · 2017-09-01T22:12:53+00:00

I say yes. Then go out with her, if she has plans of something to do and it's fun I'll do it. If it sucks or she has no plans I'll suggest something better. Jesus, this isn't difficult...

Peter_B_Long · 2017-09-01T22:17:28+00:00

Is it something you want to do? Is it something you would have fun doing if you went by yourself? If it is beneficial for you and you are not compromising anything, then I say go for it.

If the idea of it sounds good, but the logistics just ain't right, then compromise the meet up in a way where you both get what you want. For example, let's say she invites you to Olive Garden because she's been craving pasta. Well what I would do is say no (I've heard on TRP that dinner dates are a bad idea and I agree, even with an ex-LTR the dinner dates were kinda boring and I'd be stuffed and lazy by the end), and I would counter her offer with an idea that benefits everyone. Invite her over to my place to cook pasta together 'because it would be more fun' or whatever. The lil bitch gets her pasta, and I already have her in my home where I can escalate and fuck her.

If the offer is something that you really don't want to do for example, a plate asking you to come with her to a family party. Just say something like, "no thank you. Your family would love me too much and you'd lose all the attention".

You want to lead everything though. Even if the date she sets up sounds good to you and there's nothing you want to change, take control of the ship and lead everything. You want to show that you have amused mastery in every situation, even it situations that aren't planned by you.

Title	How do you respond to women asking you out?
Author	StrongAffordance
Upvotes	5
Comments	16
Date	September 1, 2017 6:28 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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