Ive been called selfish a few times lately because if something doesn't necessarily benefit me I will turn it down whether it be favors or helping out others.

The way I see it, my time is valuable. Ive been the nice guy before who does anything for anyone at the drop of a hat, and I learned that if you give them an inch, they'll take a mile. So I stopped. I do my own thing and do it for me.

Ive been called selfish, not a good team player, asshole, you name it...

I know if you try to please everyone you end up pleasing no one, but have I taken my focus on self too far?