Is fixing a landwhale a good idea? LandWhaleMaxxing?

EnteFetz · 2022-08-17T08:52:39+00:00

Don't date her. I go into FWBs with fat women, because they are easier to get, but I would never commit to a woman who is heavier than me. I am currently fucking a woman who is probably twice my weight and she told me that a few months ago she had an episode where she was very unhappy and just went on Tinder and asked guys to fuck her and she slept with 17 guys in just a few weeks. She is a seriously obese 36 years old, twice divorced and has 2 kids and she can get more dick delivered to her door than her pussy can take. She has no motivation to lose weight, because men tell her how sexy she is and so many men want to sleep with her. She actually thinks she is sexy and she told me even guys with six packs have come to her place to pleasure her. I only fuck her, because she is currently my only option. I can't find any other woman who is interested in me.

HazyMemory7 · 2022-08-17T05:36:31+00:00

You should go into dating trying to "fix" anyone. And odds are if someone needs to be prompted by someone else to lose weight they probably wont maintain it.

decoy88 · 2022-08-17T05:42:59+00:00

“I can change her” rarely works out well as a relationship strategy.

Don’t do it.

Incellius_Maximus · 2022-08-17T06:32:17+00:00

Sir, one does not simply fix a land whale, one harpoons it and sells the meat to Japan.

Lovers691 · 2022-08-17T06:33:44+00:00

Fat women have standards too lol and there’s a reason she’s obese it is cuz she lacks self control or just doesn’t want to gymmax herself what makes you think you can change her.

no_bling_just_ding · 2022-08-17T13:07:15+00:00

no. when you date someone, you have to be ready to date them as they are. any plan that depends entirely on the whims of someone outside your control is a recipe for disaster

SaltyGeekyLifter · 2022-08-17T06:42:29+00:00

No. Dumb question.

brightglowup · 2022-08-17T12:12:13+00:00

Lol so its okay to refer to larger women as landwhales and target them due to ones limited sexual success

But in the next thread, men want to lecture me about why "misandry" is bad and how two wrongs don't make a right 🤡 Get wrecked, boys

I don't care in the sense that I do not aspire to change men. I just want to point out the connection between men's senseless cruelty and the evolution of women today. 110% of everything you see coming from the opposite sex is a reaction to the enviro ment men set.

You disincetivize women from being nice or trusting. If they know the man is mid and going to dehumanize them anyway, why give dude a chance?

Better to be smutted out by Chad than being smutted out by a dicklet who couldn't convince a thirsty Becky to go to a date.

Checks meet Balances.

As for the post itself, millions of women can tell you how investing in "potential" has a very high failure rate. People often leave the people who helped them get there. Its why so many women, including me, are anti "build" with a man.

Not saying it never happens but the type of guy who refers to women as landwhales, thinking they are easier, doesnt typically have what it takes to hold on to a woman who went through a glow up.

I run a few glow up spaces and am building an app and what Ive noticed is the man starts getting very insecure and in turn, nastier and abusive which accelerates a break up

The pool of type of men she can pull for something serious is wider and men love a former fat girl personality on attractive women. They are quick to make better value propositions to destabilize the jealous boyfriend who shouts "I made you!!"

Another note, a lot of bigger women are already pulling men that would make you, as a man, insecure. I have to say that bc of the premise of your plan. If she has that face card or decent proportions, other men noticed too

Pink pilled food for thought

Antisocial_Nihilist · 2022-08-17T06:45:01+00:00

There's many flaws with this idea...

But I guess the most glaring one is that even very obese women have dating options, and you may not be be considered one of them.

https://youtu.be/aBW2E5AcbWM

rurunoa · 2022-08-17T06:57:50+00:00

just dont

keepin2002 · 2022-08-17T18:14:23+00:00

Wtf is that?

2022-08-17T18:43:34+00:00

A legit land whale no way….

A girl that’s like 5 pounds overweight..

Ya why not?

Or if her ass isn’t that maxed out but she’s skinny then yes too.

MAGA-Latino · 2022-08-18T12:29:19+00:00

It sounds like a terrible idea. Many of those chick's are overweight because they don't have the discipline to lose weight.

Besides even if it is possible she might get the hint and resent you for it.

flakybottom · 2022-08-19T09:07:42+00:00

Welll what is your definition of landwhale territory?

RatDontPanic · 2022-08-20T13:18:05+00:00

Landwhale? What a pathetic term, like "toxic masculinity".

TriggurWarning · 2022-08-21T13:21:16+00:00

I applaud your ingenuity. A lot of men are proud of the fact they fuck fat chicks (seen several bumper stickers lately, and had a nice little chuckle at their expense). I tried fucking a fat chick once, it was very difficult for me to even force myself to perform that function, once. I would advice fucking a few fat chicks first (maybe you already have). If you have what it takes then you can consider it.

The problem I foresee is that people are not stupid. They're going to pick up on the fact you're not satisfied (truly attracted to her) unless they change their lifestyle. That is a BIG ask, especially for a relatively new relationship. And people will naturally take offense to such a suggestion a large percentage of the time. So you may have to go through quite a few women before you find one with the right disposition that is open to self-improvement.

The 100% honesty route is much less likely to work than a gradual, nudging strategy is, because they're instantly going to be turned off by your attitude and lack of initial attraction. She's going to be thinking, "holy fuck, this guy is so desperate he's trying to create his ideal girlfriend." And they won't be wrong either.

And what happens when/if they fail in their efforts? Well, you'll essentially be dating a fat chick at that point, and just settling. The reason fat people are unattractive is that it demonstrates they lack self-control, common sense, and self-esteem. It may also mean they have a genetic predisposition towards a very unattractive condition.

That being said, I still applaud your ingenuity, and who knows, you might figure out a way to make it work despite all the potential downsides and pitfalls associated with such a quest (maybe even write a book about it). But make no mistake though, this is not a simple matter trying to control someone else's behavior. You must approach the problem from the standpoint of incrementalism.

Title	Is fixing a landwhale a good idea? LandWhaleMaxxing?
Author	MasonSub4
Upvotes	4
Comments	32
Date	August 17, 2022 5:30 AM UTC (1 year ago)
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