And/or what’s the meanest or rudest way someone has reacted to you being not being mutually interested in them.
I have two.
Rejected me: not really the meanest but it is the one that stuck with me. I mentioned to a guy I liked that I was interested and he told me he could never be more than friends with a poc person. He told our entire friend group about it.
That was the first time I realized that looks sometimes don’t matter more than other qualities.
The rudest way someone reacted to me rejecting them: a man I met on OLD asked me if I was interested in hooking up with him after our first date: when I said no, he got agitated and started accusing me of being lazy, immature and ungrateful. He then proceeding to flood my phone over the next day or two with text messages about how I was an ugly bitch that “couldn’t even be bothered to get an eating disorder to make up for that face”. And said things about how I’d be a better woman if my dad was around. Which I was very confused about because my dad is very much in my life.
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