Somewhere along the path I became a minimalist.

Less shit owned = less shit to manage = more free time.

Multiple times I have encountered women in my family and dating that insist on owning enough dishes/glassware to run a fucking hotel. In a house where 3 people live why do you need 20+ coffee mugs and 70+ cups, mugs, wine glasses etc overall?? Trying to put stuff away is like a fucking chinese puzzle because the cabinets are overflowing with glassware.

There is a lot to like about my current LTR. For a while, I didn't notice her chaotic/cluttered environment at home. Lately, it is stressing me out. I am beginning to think I could not handle living together.

yeah, yeah I know lift, bang plates, stay single...