http://www.redditlog.com/snapshots/278789/ & http://www.redditlog.com/snapshots/278793 (OP posted in two different subreddits)
Indian girl who is 35 years old, size 17 complains she can't find a man. Her own self-limiting choices, desire for only high status men, & lack of effort in her younger years have excluded many of the Indian guys she wants now (White guys were okay when she was younger).
Cites she is a doctor, which should make her attractive. Solipsism prevents her from realizing that men don't value the same things that women do in a mate. Thus, things like career prospects in women are largely irrelevant. All her effort spent on her career when younger should have been spent in the gym (although I'll give her props she is doing something about it now).
Realizes that feminist subreddits offer terrible office regarding getting a high value male:
I know this subreddit advocates sex-positivism, but in my experience most of the guys in the real world that hold similar beliefs are lifelong bachelors themselves. But I find that if I hold out on having sex than a lot of guys don’t bother for future dates.
Another example of feminism and slut-advocacy hurting women in the long run. Further, she frames the entire idea of relationships as a choice between women giving up sex versus making guys work for it. Time & time again, women frame themselves as sex objects with sex as their fallback power move. Perhaps if she offered some nice cooking, feminine personality, or participation in her man's hobbies, guys would stick around. I myself have traded in a HB9 for an HB7 who is better in bed, nicer, positive, and all around more cheerful about life.
- And where there are choices, there are consequences:
For me, it was more so, I put my love life on low priority, most of the time I focused on my career, or just whatever was my hurdle then. I am not blaming men for what happened, looking back I was the one who was often lowly invested in my relationships, there were some good guys that I didn't show how much I appreciated, instead I thought of them as accessories to my life.
As you can see, there are actually plenty of good guys going around. But those are disqualified as mates in her mind. Beta orbitors.
- Let's not leave out the hypocritical gold-digging either:
The type of guy I really want is a guy who is successful similar to me. Not saying that I will only date a guy that makes what I make, it's not so much money as it is a white collar career. When it comes to looks I want to physically attracted to him
Yet, she is a size 17. Take that equivalent for a man (300 lbs?) and now ask anyone if he "deserves" to be called handsome. Of course not. A 300 lb man wouldn't be griping as to why women he previously rejected don't want to buy fancy dinners for him 5 years later.
- Bad advice from comment sections:
I don't think your standards are too high, and yea weight can be a problem but if you're healthy and you feel good that's all that matters.
Basically the complete opposite of reality. Should be ashamed to give anyone advice like this.
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