my wife says I'm her second, the first was a 6'8 basketball player who's semi pro. Don't know why they split up but I don't like talking about him (keep frame). She says I'm better partner and she doesn't look back (alpha widow?) but I have doubts.
Anyway she hasn't been acting differently and all was well when I took her phone to call my mother and she jumped to call her herself. Later I find she has a passcode on her phone. One day I look without her knowing and catch the passcode pattern, and I log in.
Her old flame sent dick pics and apparently they met? She never mentioned it before. I confront her and she says she gave back an old vaccuum cleaner her forgot with her when they lived together, then cried so much and told me I'm paranoid and not being a good husband.
I'm 70% suee shre cheated. Next course of action?