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What happened when you fucked your plates friend?

by LiveAFTSOV | January 06, 2018 | askTRP


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I have an opportunity to bang the friend of my Plate, but I dont want to lose the plate.

Id actually like a threesome, but I feel the girls would cat fight and get jealous over it.

What has happened when you fucked your plates friends?

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Title What happened when you fucked your plates friend?
Author LiveAFTSOV
Upvotes 6
Comments 28
Date 06 January 2018 01:42 PM UTC (2 years ago)
Subreddit askTRP
Link https://theredarchive.com/post/121482
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/7ojanp/what_happened_when_you_fucked_your_plates_friend/
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[–]Endorsed Contributorvandaalen19 points20 points  (13 children) | Copy

I dont want to lose the plate

They come and go anyways.

[–]LiveAFTSOV 1 points1 points [recovered] | Copy

True. Some girls are better (looking, personality, etc) than others tho.

Id hate to lose a good plate for her friend you know?

[–]SeamusAwl5 points6 points  (4 children) | Copy

Then she is not a plate.

[–]LiveAFTSOV 1 points1 points [recovered] | Copy

I know. Realistically, id call her a High quality FWB. Like an upgraded plate, but not girl friend

[–]DiggerClam4 points5 points  (2 children) | Copy

I smell oneitis. It fucking stinks.

[–]LiveAFTSOV 1 points1 points [recovered] | Copy

How is it oneitis? Some girls are more fun than others

[–]jay_jay_man2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

You're making decisions about fucking a girl based on how this plate might react, seems like you're losing frame.

You are the fucking prize. Fuck her friend and if she gets jealous and wants to keep you to herself them she goes the extra mile (sucking you off all night, swallowing, anal, 3sum with another friend, making you say 'wow', etc) to keep you satisfied if she doesn't want to share with this friend.

[–]Endorsed Contributorvandaalen7 points8 points  (6 children) | Copy

Id hate to lose a good plate for her friend you know?

No. I don't. If I want to fuck said friend I fuck her. If not I don't. I don't give a fuck if a series of holes I masturbate in will get pissed over it or whatever.

She's got no say and she is free to leave whenever she wants. There are many more like her.

In fact, if she'll start drama over it, she will learn about the option of a soft-next.

[–]CutLiver3 points4 points  (4 children) | Copy

The point is that this guy is emotionally attached. If he wasn't, then he wouldn't be asking this question.

[–]LiveAFTSOV 1 points1 points [recovered] | Copy

True. You like some.girls more than others right?

[–]CutLiver0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy

Absolutely. Anybody who's a normal human being will. Vandaalen is either putting on an act, or he's a legit stone-cold motherfucker. Personally I get attached to girls as soon as soon as they tell me they love me. It's a normal reaction imo.

[–]LiveAFTSOV 1 points1 points [recovered] | Copy

With all hes been through i woudlnt be surprised if he is that cold.

Id like that tho.

But aye i feel you.

So, is it oneitis if its normal? I like her more than other girls, we click well, she treats me.good, and she loves me, so i give her more girlfriendy treatment, but im.not exclusive to her.

So how is it oneitis?

[–]CutLiver0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Oneitis is a mindset. You can be with one girl and not have oneitis. You need to treat her like you have other options.

If she disrespects you, then stand up for yourself. Never be a girl's bitch. When you do that, you lose her respect.

It is normal to be attached to a girl. That's been normal for millions of years. But cut that shit out. When you experience enough relationships and you value yourself, you'll understand that YOU are the catch. She is not. I'm sure it sounds completely alien or cold-hearted, but QUIT giving a fuck about what she's doing, who she's with, etc. You need to focus on yourself and let her pursue you. When that happens you'll never lose her.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Plates are more than a series of holes you misogynistic bigot. Dont forget the tits

[–]UncleWarwick6 points7 points  (2 children) | Copy

Fuck her friend, let the girls fight, and see what the fuck happens.

If anything for your own enjoyment in the situation.

If for anything else, turn to them both into plates. Get them to decide amongst themselves how to share you. I believe /u/VasiliyZaitzev has a great story about this.

[–]Senior EndorsedVasiliyZaitzev8 points9 points  (0 children) | Copy

From a previous post:

In one case, an ex-gf who was very bi had a sexy roommate that she desperately wanted to have sex with, but she knew the girl preferred the D, overwhelmingly. So she basically set me up with her, knowing full well that (a) I would seduce her, and (b) I would happily share, and once the girl got comfortable, she'd open up a bit. Anyway, they negotiated a rather complex treaty about managing things when I wasn't around (they were both young (early 20s) and had things like "parents", so there was some discussion about whose 'boyfriend' I was going to be at whose house, etc., if and when it came up.) It was kind of funny, because I pointed out to my ex, that, when I wasn't around, she "was the boyfriend" - the other girl was a bit more of a girly-girl than she was. Anyway, it was a fun ride and they were quite pleasant together. I once arranged a hotel suite for us at a place where I sometimes stay on business in Europe. So in making the reservation by phone - I had to in order to get a suite (required because 3 people) - the (American) CSR couldn't get past that I had 3 people, but wanted a king bed and kept turning down her suggestion of a cot for the room. So finally, I was like "Look. I have a 'Vicky-Cristina-Barcelona' thing going on. One king bed. No cot." When I showed up at the hotel, the Europeans understood right away. Very amusing.

[–]AiAmDreamer1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

So what if you lose a plate? You want to fuck your plate’s friend, so be a man and just do what you want. There are plenty of other girls who will be happy to be your plate anyway.

[–]Gainsndgame0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

One of the most difficult parts of the pill to swallow, but arguably the most rewarding, is accepting the ephemerality of relationships, and knowing that if it’s time to move on you have the strength to do so with grace. Seems like you’re growing attached to this plate. I say if you don’t try to fuck her friend this will lead to bad things for your mindset. If she were truly a regular plate and not something approaching the potential value of fine china, you wouldn’t even have posed this question on the subreddit.

Try to fuck her friend. It will open up an aspect of game and shit tests you may be unfamiliar with if you’ve never done this before. At best you add another notch, another plate, and have the potential foundation for a threesome. At worst you lose a plate — which should be easy to throw out as long as you see it as merely disposable paper plate. A piece of silverware shattering on the floor is harder to sweep up.

[–]IVIaskerade0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

She sat on the friend's face.

Things worked out.

[–]DadOnDabs0 points1 point  (4 children) | Copy

She's a hoe anyways and knows I'm a hoe. She really didn't care or ever mention it.

[–]LiveAFTSOV 1 points1 points [recovered] | Copy

Lol damn ur plate a straight hoe

[–]DadOnDabs0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy

I swear. She invited me to a party the other night and I told her directly another girl would be coming home with us and she was excited. Hoes gonna hoe

[–]LiveAFTSOV 1 points1 points [recovered] | Copy

I took that sales job btw, made my first sale today

Its literally exactly like fucking women

Best decision i ever made.

[–]DadOnDabs0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

You hit the nail on the head. It will change your game 10 fold. Really teaches you how to talk to anyone without making them feel awkward or like you want something.

Read How to Win Friends and Influence People. Changed my sales pitch entirely.

[–]RedSkeller0 points1 point  (5 children) | Copy

We became Eskimo brothers, got to make jokes about it, used to walk up to her and make an Eiffel tower when we saw her out. My other buddy was resentful for a long time and I think it hurt our friendship. Just depends on the guy.

[–]LiveAFTSOV 1 points1 points [recovered] | Copy

I think you miss understood me, im saying you have a girl, and you want to fuck her friend, who is also female.

[–]SeamusAwl-1 points0 points  (1 child) | Copy

Easily misunderstood. Why do you care about the plate?

[–]no_condoments2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy

He said plate's friend, not friend's plate. Meaning there is one guy and two girls in this scenario. Right OP?

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