Pretext: This isn't a 'there's this one girl' post, I'm just looking for advice re loss of frame as I haven't been in this situation before. I went back to my hometown for Christmas and New Year, over the space of 2 weeks I met a girl, she is friends with one of my good friends (via her brother), after our first encounter she added me on Facebook, I took it as an IOI, she said I was really funny etc etc We met again on NYE after texting a little, but logistics didn't work out, we kissed but that was it. Afterwards I invited her out with me, she came out on Saturday, everything went well, we fucked and were quite a bit more intimate than we should have been. (Not a pump and dump type scenario)

Body: The issue is that I'm going back to where I live tomorrow, and I may not be back for a couple of months. I lightheartedly said she could visit, and then got a more serious about it. She didn't want to commit to anything so it was brushed off. As I'm leaving tomorrow it would have been good to see her tonight but she's busy, so instead of straight up asking her if she wants to meet for food and a drink tomorrow afternoon before I leave, I said that my friend (who is leaving with me) and I would be around grabbing some drinks if she wants to join. She said she doesn't know and that it would be weird - she's right - so I backtracked a bit, said I don't know what my friend is doing and I thought I'd suggest something as I wont be back for a while, I also said something along the lines of "well I'll be in town if you want to see me before I go". She asked me what time I'm leaving and I told her I'll text her tomorrow to let her know what time I'll be in town, she seems keen and I'm confident she will meet me if I want to.

The question is... after losing frame and being too invested (or seeming like it anyway) - how do I proceed? Do I meet her tomorrow, act like nothing has gone wrong and just have a good time and then say goodbye? Or do I make an excuse and not meet her?

My thinking is that I'm not sure why I would meet her tomorrow and what positives can come from it? I would like to sleep with her etc when I'm back in town again (I also might be back in town for the whole summer so there's that). I've fucked up and shouldn't have suggested it in the first place.

Thanks in advance