[I mistakenly posted this in the wrong sub, so I'm reposting my question here]

I've been in an LTR for 2 years. I stay with her about 1 week every 2 weeks. We fuck every day we're together, sometimes twice a day.

I won't write a book about what happened (unless I'm asked for more info), but the basic situation started with me asking her what was wrong (even though I knew I shouldn't), which turned into sort of a fight. She was essentially upset that I won't move in with her and she feels sad when I'm not there. Initially, I was doing great with AA and fogging. Eventually, I lost frame because I got angry at her incessant efforts to get under my skin. I fucked up by getting drunk (we were both drunk by the end), otherwise I would have left because of her drama. At the end of the night, I angrily declared I would never move in with her because of reasons. At that point it was late, I was drunk and tired, so I got into bed. She came to bed later and I fucked her like nothing happened.

The next day she acted like the fight never happened, except that she thanked me for giving her direction (I won't move in). Ever since this fight, she's been [more] affectionate/feminine. Any ideas why? If I "listen to her actions, not her words", they're essentially telling me that everything is status quo, but I'm still left a little confused.