I'm 29 and I have recently been spinning plates, one of my plates just check mated me this way.

  1. She asked me if I was seeing other people. My response: "why do you wanna know that?" and changed the subject
  2. She confirmed it through a text message I got (rookie mistake)
  3. Few days after that, after sex, she told me that if I am fucking other girls she wanted me to use a condom, eventhough I use them with other people 'cause she's a little bit grossed by it. My response: "alright"

  4. Bonus shit test: as I wasn't speaking and I let out I liked her a lot, she said: "I think you are afraid of falling in love with me". I didn't say anything because the question seemed absurd to me, but then she said:"stop ignoring me and answer it", I laughed because I wasn't able to dodge the bullet so my response was:"I don't want to talk about it, who gives a fuck?" she kinda got mad after that.

So, I'm not sure if I'm reading correctly the conversations here but I think she wants a relationship or at least be exclusive which I don't want at the moment. So if I use a condom and she knows I'm seeing other people, would she back out on trying to be exclusive? Any ideas?