Girl flaked "sick" last night but she's out drinking tonight.

redhawkes · 2018-01-21T11:30:43+00:00

Game other chicks, and soft next until she initiates.

It's not your job to reschedule, you invited, she flaked. It's up to her.

You're not her priority at the moment, so you've been put on the backburner.

Saw her on IG tonight drinking and parting for her friends birthday.

This indicates that you're on a good way to oneitis.

2comment · 2018-01-21T13:06:16+00:00

What shall I do here?

Apparently that date wasn't that awesome. She nexted you, bro. Nothing doing, go radio silent, unless you want to be her lap dog that rushes over on command. It doesn't mean you can't take a crack at it again when the opportunity presents itself, but go fish better waters. That will make you more attractive than waiting around for her.

VasiliyZaitzev · 2018-01-21T14:04:53+00:00

So she was out drinking the night she flaked or the night after?

That said, women will lie when the lie is totally optional because it 'sounds better'.

N.B. this sounds like a "A girl did something I find disrespectful but she's kind hot" question. The answer to those questions is always, "Next her, and go game other girls." Whether it's a soft or hard next depends on the level of the offense.

Also, (not that you would) but don't mention that you busted her on IG because it will become about how "You Insta-stalked me!" and not "I'm a lyin' ass ho'!", plus you will lose that method of verification.

RP_Br3 · 2018-01-21T11:20:17+00:00

I'd soft next if she pulls shit like this on the regular. At the moment you allow it since whenever she flakes you immediately sets up a new date, rather than have her ask for forgiveness. Stop being her safety net

andystyle24 · 2018-01-21T17:12:37+00:00

Almost the exact same situation happened to me last night. I went to the bar, saw her walk in, grabbed another girl and proceeded to take her home.

Next.

MattyAnon · 2018-01-21T14:58:08+00:00

re so I said no worries and rescheduled for this upcoming week if she feels good.

This was bad. Don't offer her more commitment when she flakes. When she flakes, you soft next, she should worry that she blew it not be happy she can do the same thing next week.

Saw her on IG tonight drinking and parting for her friends birthday. What shall I do here?

what to do? nothing, jeez.

chim_city · 2018-01-21T17:31:26+00:00

She just demoted herself to a plate. Not LTR material. Do with that as you please

Scheme00 · 2018-01-21T20:47:30+00:00

Thanks for the responses. The most she will get from me at this point is walking to my door to open it for a drink at my house.

W_O_M_B_A_T · 2018-01-21T13:11:26+00:00

Nothing. You do nothing towards her, and approach other women.

[deleted] · 2018-01-21T16:56:23+00:00

I think you know the answer to this one.

Next.

Scheme00 · 2018-01-21T11:21:39+00:00

Can you give an example of how to respond to her? I'm not her safety net. We had the second date lined up and she flaked. I went out instead. She does not know I see her IG.

Taipanshimshon · 2018-01-21T20:23:55+00:00

How is this a question. Replace her with three others. And forget she exists.

If she contacts you tell her to come over. Wearing nothing under her coat. And to bring you flowers

DiggerClam · 2018-01-21T21:12:50+00:00

Read your post. You know what to do. She's not interested.

LordThunderbolt · 2018-01-22T01:28:25+00:00

The title of your post tells u all u need to know

juliusstreicher · 2018-01-23T22:04:50+00:00

Saw her on IG tonight drinking and parting for her friends birthday. What shall I do here?

She lied to you, and then went out whoring around. Hmmm...what to do...what to do...

Title	Girl flaked "sick" last night but she's out drinking tonight.
Author	Scheme00
Upvotes	17
Comments	20
Date	January 21, 2018 11:15 AM UTC (6 years ago)
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