I've dropped a lot of neediness recently, or at least figured out how to drop these feelings when they appear out of nowhere. As I get older I get more comfortable as a person with who I am and generally getting slightly more socially confident, more DGAF.

My success with women hasn't changed as I haven't really focused on it yet except when interaction is convenient.

But my personality is still just generally very awkward and low energy. It's just how I've always been and I don't really see how I could or why I should change it even though I'm obviously aware apathy and low energy are not attractive personality traits.

When I drink, even just one drink, I get a lot more confident and extroverted. But when I'm sober I'm fairly shut off and unconfident unless I'm talking to a friend I can trust.

Would appreciate any tips, advice or good posts which can help me with this. Cheers