How is dating for a white, 7,5/10 [M21] in South America?

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February 1, 2018
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Hey dudes. Going to South America for studying soon. Was wondering how the dating scene there compares to the west, and if girls avoid whites to avoid a 'scene'. Personally I just came back from Asia where everyone on the internet says 'WHITES ARE GODS THERE FOR THE WOMEN', but in reality it's definitely good, although 90% of girls in my particular country have terrible English skills so that's a no-go for any talking apart from 'How are you, where are you from, what do you do, how long will you be here, do you like Asian girls'.


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Title How is dating for a white, 7,5/10 [M21] in South America?
Author WolfofAnarchy
Upvotes 1
Comments 18
Date 01 February 2018 12:12 PM UTC (3 years ago)
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[–]Sir-Pumpalot4 points5 points  (1 child) | Copy

doesn't matter if you are white, black or yellow. If you are a 8/10, dating can be good anywhere... a black 8/10 is still a 8/10; a white 8/10 is also a 8/10, skin color doesnt matter, only your own preference

[–]WolfofAnarchy1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

I know - but in japan for instance lots of girls don't want to date whites because of respect blabla, wondering if there's any of those things in SA.

[–]quicklogaccount1 point2 points  (7 children) | Copy

South America is a big place. Which country?

Being white:
No shits will be given unless you have green or blue eyes, being blond will probably help a bit.

7.5:
You'll hardly get that grade in two places here. Some places favor fitness and being tanned, others favor dressing well... Standards vary a lot between countries and most often within the same country, mainly Brazil.

Communicating:
I doubt you'll be relying on communication to build value on your age. You can assume that if a chick is giving you attention despite of not being able to talk to you, you'll pick her up. I've pretended to be a foreigner more than once to pick up chicks more easily on Carnaval here.

Game:
This varies too much between places to bother trying to break it down.

Kissing:
You'll french kiss women the first time you kiss them. We actually have a hard time with americans because of that, a female friend told me she felt like trying to rape the guy when she first kissed him. Her description is adequate, and it REALLY sucks. I recall precisely the one chick I made out with and that wouldn't french kiss.
If you spend Carnaval in Brazil, folks french kiss 10+ people a day. Get used to the idea.

[–]WolfofAnarchy1 point2 points  (6 children) | Copy

Sounds good. I'm learning Spanish though, so that may make things easier. I'm thinking of going to either Argentina, Colombia, Chile, Peru or Mexico.

Wondering what the big differences are between dating in SA vs the US, have you felt any?

I have blue eyes and dark-blonde hair.

[–]quicklogaccount2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

I've never been to Mexico.

Of your list, Colombians are somewhat fond of foreigners, Argentinians don't give a lot of shits, Chileans and Peruvians might even be a bit antipathetic (Andean folks are either antipathetic towards white people or towards everyone, I can't really say for sure).
Dating wise, Colombia and Argentina are somewhat like Brazil and will most likely be more familiar for you, the "standard" idea is that you'll go and talk to the chick. I didn't actually get to see the scene anywhere in US but to me it seems that we're a lot more flirty.
Peru (a lot more than Chile) and Chile are famous because the "standard" is ridiculously slow paced, hellish. The idea is that the "right" thing to do is to talk to the chick for few days before making any moves. (I'm aware that it's not like that for everyone, there are places suitable for escalating, if you game well you'll get laid on the first date, but "standard".)

Colombians are better looking on average. You'll see more chicks you'd nail on the street at a random day. Argentinians are more european looking on average. But truth is, you'll be a rich college student roaming around rich folks, and these will look well just about anywhere you land.

I might be a bit biased because I fucking love Argentina. Buenos Aires and Cordoba. I started going there on college because the imbalance between official and street exchange rates made the trip actually cheap, cheaper than traveling inside Brazil, but I've only gone there single and looking for game once, while I struggled heavily with approach anxiety, and I still scored.

[–]scr0tum691 point2 points  (4 children) | Copy

I moved to Central America about a year ago and having blue eyes is a huge plus. Probably 90% of the girls I chat with tell me how much they love my eyes.

I would stay away from Peru, solely because the girls there aren't the best looking. Many have very manly features in my experience. i.e. big jaws/cheek bones, man hands, hairy arms, etc...

[–]WolfofAnarchy1 point2 points  (3 children) | Copy

Good to hear. I mentioned these countries above, which of them would you recommend? I'm looking for not too unsafe, not too poor and some good looking girls / dating scene.

[–]scr0tum691 point2 points  (2 children) | Copy

I would definitely go with Colombia. I've never been but I think that's the best option for what your looking for.

[–]WolfofAnarchy1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy

Awesome. One problem is that it seems very unsafe to me, and as my skin is so white it glows in the dark, I feel like a ripe target

[–]scr0tum691 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Colombia should be pretty safe if you keep yourself out of vulnerable situations. I am white as hell too and if I'm going out at night, I make sure I stick around some good local friends and keep my wits about me. You've just got to be a little more aware of your surroundings than if you were back home. Find a decent neighbourhood to live in and you'll be set.

I definitely feel eyes on me when I go out to local bars and clubs in areas where gringo tourists aren't seen often. But you get used to it.

[–]PrepositionalChi-1 points0 points  (7 children) | Copy

Laura Southern (fuck it, she's a unicorn, so ban me, i said it) has put out a good youtube video last week on her channel about whites getting murdered in south africa. Be careful and make sure you are packing some serious heat.

[–]WolfofAnarchy1 point2 points  (6 children) | Copy

Thanks for the tip, but I'm planning on staying far away from that place. Not looking for south Africa, but south America ;)

[–]PrepositionalChi0 points1 point  (5 children) | Copy

shit, i only passed 7th grade and can't read, sorry!

[–]WolfofAnarchy1 point2 points  (4 children) | Copy

No probs, hah

[–]PrepositionalChi 1 points1 points [recovered] | Copy

hey do you have discord? we started a (trp-themed discord channel](https://discord.gg/WzcFy6W) if you're interested we'd love to have people with a good sense of humor. (humor is power, by the way)

[–]WolfofAnarchy1 point2 points  (2 children) | Copy

Shit, don't have discord my man. How many people are there on your channel and is it active?

[–]PrepositionalChi0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

It just started 3 hours ago, but the previous one (which the mod banned everyone even though it was successful) was very active and my favorite discord channel. I luckily messaged 2 other users during the mod's banning spree and they said we should start it, so we started it, lol.

[–]WolfofAnarchy1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Well good luck with it dude, the Manosphere needs good personal communication!



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