In retrospect, did I fuck up and accept a beta position?

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March 8, 2018
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I want a balanced opinion on this situation. It was kind of a classic LJBF kind of thing but with a twist.

I was in college and went after a girl who was relatively pretty and her Dad is the head of my department and has a ton of connections. Both of those things were at play for sure. She was one of those girls that hangs out with a ton of guys and friendzones all of them and asks why no guys want to approach her. Even the ones she claims to like she makes sure to tease so that they never get too close to her "platinum vagine" (barf). Also, obviously, girls hate her for getting all this attention and she complains about that too to no end (yawn).

In retrospect, I should have avoided this whole situation, but got friendzoned because I am a dumbass anyway. Now, other than swallowing my dignity and having to inflate her ego a few times, I got her to introduce me to her dad and got him to offer me a position on his research team. I am fairly sure that his letter of rec got me into my first choice medical school.

I didn't end up dropping her as a friend after the friendzoning and did manage to get something pretty useful out of it. But I can't help feel like I got shortchanged somehow. I mean I did have to give up time and dignity to ingratiate to her. And I mean yeah I got a decent amount of free booze from the parties she would throw, but she also publicly bitched me out for flirting with one of her friends.

I feel like my dignity wasn't worth it, but from a pragmatic viewpoint I got enough out of it. I don't talk to her anymore obviously. She's outlived her usefulness to me and I'm not going to inflate her ego.


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Title In retrospect, did I fuck up and accept a beta position?
Author EscapeTheGoat
Upvotes 0
Comments 3
Date 08 March 2018 08:50 AM UTC (3 years ago)
Subreddit askTRP
Link https://theredarchive.com/post/125335
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/82w3vg/in_retrospect_did_i_fuck_up_and_accept_a_beta/
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[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

As much as you try to downplay her, you are still enthralled by her "Platinum Vagina." If you were to fuck her it would have been all worth it right?

It's all good dude. She was an attention whore. They are like black holes, so you should be glad you got what you got out of it. For the sake of attention she could have made it difficult for you to connect with her dad.

Attention whores/ flirts/ bullshitters are a pain to us all just take solace in the fact that she will continue to act like this until she is 35 and realized that her platinum vagina has depreciated in value to copper.

[–]BeeBopJoe0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Shes using you for validation, next her.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

The only part of your post that matters is you’re going to med school and avoided an attention whore. Congrats!



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