I’ve had sex with this girl five or six times. We were trying to set up a time to hang this week but both of our schedules were tight. I proposed two days that didn’t work for her and she came back with two days that didn’t work for me.

Anyway I hit her up today cause my other plans fell through. She said she made dinner plans now but wants to meet up after. I have doubts these were dinner plans but I really don’t care. If she’s fucking other guys (I assume she is) wouldn’t bother me as long as I was getting mine.

Anyway she tells me she will probably finish up sometime around 10, maybe after, but she’ll keep me updated on time. I hit her up at 930 saying that’s cool, hurry your ass up. No response. Hit her an hour later saying what’s the deal. No response. Finally like an hour after that (1130) this game I was watching ends and I tell her I’m gonna bounce unless I hear from her. Don’t hear from her so I start to drive home.

But before I leave my feels get the better of me. I say “just so you know I don’t fuck with hard flakes and we’re approaching that. If we met up tonight you’d be getting punished for being a bad girl.” Honestly probably shouldn’t have said that but at this point I don’t care. I can drop her, and probably already should have because she’s tough to schedule, but wanted to let her know I found that disrespectful. I was trying to play nice earlier but I’m not down with hard flakes. I know this girl is glued to her phone.

Then 15 mins later I get the “just finishing up, so sorry, didn’t know what time we’d finish, I’m so sorryyyyy I ran late I feel really bad” spiel. Obviously I didn’t respond to that. She was probably texting me with another guy in her bed lol. Maybe not but seems plausible.

I guess my question is does this behavior warrant a hard next? Am I being too sensitive? Should I see her again if she hits me up? I won’t respond to her sorry texts, but I have a feeling she might say sorry again in the morning. Should I respond to that? Should I only respond if she asks to meet up or asks when I’m free? What do you guys think?