As a guy, nobody gives a fuck about you bar family members and long-time friends.

Generally speaking, nobody gives a fuck about you. No one's going to automatically take your side in arguments, or pull guys off of you in a fight, or give you a job because they want to bang you, nobody gives a fuck about you at face value.

People don't give a shit about guys until they've actually made it, as in, become successful because they think "shiiiiiiiit, I wanna be like that guy" as so few guys actually become materially, noticeably and stylishly successful. There are guys who have buckets of money but they're fucking boring as shit. There are fucking jacked gym guys, aesthetic as hell, but fucking broke and everything inbetween and lower down the totem pole, all the way down to basement dwelling dwarf look-a-like with a receding hairline at 21.

Most people have a HOLE in their game. I'll throw in some race related shit into this too, because from my observations its relevant to the whole giving a fuck mantra.

Asian's give the most fucks I've ever seen, shit there was a guy last night and I immediately thought "is this guy doing some PUA shit" it was hilarious to me and only slightly awkward because his execution wasn't too bad, but I'm a dark triad motherfucker who was high as hell in the middle of town, I could see every little insecurity, twitch, hesitance, put-on smile.. you fucking name it, this guy couldn't fool me for shit.

Not gonna lie, people who hate PUAs? Good on them, they're fucking annoying and not natural for shit. PUA concepts are FINE, it's solid social strategy distilled into easily understood concepts, we borrow shit from PUA here, but we're not fucking PUAs lol. It's the type of awkward fucking person a PUA makes that annoy the shit out of me (and equally, must apply to the girls who are being hit on even worse one would imagine!) Even when he DHV'ed, from my perception (and if I can see this, the hot little 8.5 next to me could definitely see it) it just seemed like he was trying to qualify himself.

I typically go for an outrageous don't give a fuck frame when I talk to girls and it's not put on, I've just internalised not giving a fuck to such a point and have taken the pussy off the pedestal so much that when I talk to a bitch and she tells me she's foreign I'm more likely to ask her what her visa status is than what she likes doing with her spare time. Yeah I'm an asshole and it's a hilarious shit test, why the fuck not?

Now black people, they seem to give the least fucks and have the best execution for bullshit. They generally have very good frame control, I've met some pussy ass black guys don't get me wrong, but stereotypically speaking as a distinct ethnic identity they have the most solid game of any group I've ever seen, they get a lot of red pill shit on a basic level because of the music they listen to and the poverty they grow up in.

They also need to stop playing the fucking race card, that's a frame destroyer that makes them look like glorified fucking pussies. I notice when black people are butthurt over some shit they do what feminists do "OOOOOOH it's because I'm a woman blah blah" equates into "OOOOH its because im black isn't it!" no it's actually because you're a cunt, nobody gave a fuck about your pigment, you're confusing causation with correlation you buffoon. To me this is the only place where blacks as a group mess up at giving a fuck, playing the race card cries of giving way too many fucks, its weak, and smart people like myself will just instantly stop respecting you the minute you try to manipulatively leverage your race as an excuse for displaying low value, take some fucking responsibility for your shit that's what men do, agree and amplify your failures, don't play the fucking race card it screams of insecurity.

Race shit aside, which I love to mention btw, because so many people give fucks about it, and it'll incite a lot of discussion, whilst I personally give minimal fucks about ethnicity, its barely a blip on my fucking radar and ironically my country is full of foreigners who hold less than favourable views of us fellow indigineous, guess I'm one tolerant motherfucker!

The major difference between men and women that I can see is that as a man, it takes time to build value and unless you've already made it and are flaunting it (turning up in a lamborghini w/loud music, armani suit, rolexes etc) then men don't display value on sight. I guess posture and and your body count as a display, but really they just serve to intimidate people whilst impressing them slightly, hoes won't be jumping on top of you in the street and you won't automatically get a free ride in life (like chicks do for being female and not ugly.) This means in short term interactions where you may only be with a group for mere minutes for up to an hour or two, unless you completely dominate the interaction with the highest energy, people will ignore the fuck out of you, particularly men.

Men are huge fucking cunts, most men will throw you in the gutter for a piece of pussy. If there's one thing TRP should teach you it's not just that women don't give a fuck about you and are selfish - but so are men. All these wonderful things we hear about guys doing, they're for girls they're fucking or want to fuck. No doubt she's a minimum 6/10, probably lots of 7's and up and therefore, /r/pussypass she's an /r/snowflake we should /r/whiteknight and supplicate for pussy. LOL. Wrong. It's so wrong. It's such a bad strategy, it gives chicks even more fucking power than they already have and so devastatingly, it's common as fuck - most men are fucking thirsty.

You're not a chick, he can't fuck and doesn't want to fuck you, guys will be openly hostile, passive aggressive, uncool, ignore you in conversation in attempt to isolate you or whatever shit they can do in the presence of pussy, because they don't see you "as a brother." in mating displays, no, they see you as an obstacle. Even if you don't give a fuck about the girls that are there, if he does - he will act like a cunt, because despite your disposition, he's viewing you as an obstacle to getting some even though the silly fuck has a low chance of getting any anyway. Why? Because he gives too many fucks.

I love how men change around women, when there's pretty women around and all the men change up their behaviour, the representative you're meeting indicates a lot about who they really are. When chicks are around guys will start pumping up the level of bullshit they're speaking, but in subtext, you're learning a lot about them. Men are normally straight talking people, but when it comes to women they attempt power talk - this is where you get to see them showing the best of what they've got in terms of dark triad traits to try and get the pussy. However this is already a faulty premise, as a DT who gives too many fucks is less powerful than a DT who doesn't care. One is eager and giving away way too much of his attention, the other is aloof and indifferent. Aloofness is fine once you've made your presence felt. Typically DTs who give way too many fucks have high narcissism and low self-esteem and thus need the external validation.

Apparently, I'm more of a sigma than an alpha, but then I never got this whole greek letter shit so that may have something to do with my opinion on this shit. Basically in short, don't be a fucking try hard, dark triad or not - people can smell the desperation, and the initial rush of dopamine you get from being validated by a new group who acknowledges you in the short term isn't worth the damage done socially in the long term. If you open all high energy and trying to prove a point, you've set a precedent where this will be expected of you for the rest of the interaction otherwise you "gradually get more and more boring."

A man gives a woman the representative he feels will best impress her. If you want to learn a lot about a guys character, put him in an environment where he will be made to feel like you're both competing for women, not as wingmen, but rivals. 9/10 chance he will start giving so many fucks he'll have spare fucks for a charity bucket somewhere and he'll play an amog routine, assuming he's not a good friend of yours and he's sufficiently thirsty enough (most guys are thirsty as hell for pussy - it's pretty pathetic)

Back to a less vocational and a more philosophical slant on giving a fuck, men aren't given a shit about by anyone. Other men don't give a shit about you and will cockblock you, steal your job and fuck with you to secure their own needs. Women don't give a shit about you unless you're rich AND/OR: popular/well-connected/high status. Being aesthetic works best on holidays when as a tourist, not having a high value social-circle isn't a deal breaker or the people visiting your area are tourists and thus your local knowledge/connections automatically trumps their lack of either - on this note, shout out to /u/TRPSubmitter check out his blog at http://redpillkorea.wordpress.com/ where you can read more about this shit in the form of his couchsurfing field reports.

So for most of us trying to make it in the world who are not yet established, fucks are not being given about you, so why the fuck should you spend time giving a fuck about anyone and everyone, when nobody else has your interests at heart, hmm? Nice guys need a slap from reality, your niceness will be drained from your corpse as you're raped for every tiny thing you have good going for yourself by some exploitative fuck. The only thing you should be giving a fuck about is yourself. Selfishness is of the most paramount important. You need to be as selfish and egocentric as all the competition, because if you don't give a fuck about yourself - there's nobody left to give a fuck about you - you will be a failure. That which is given the fuck about the most, grows the most - that goes for problems, people, profit - everything.

Give something enough attention and it grows. Giving a fuck about things you can't change, people you can't change, none of that shit is conducive to who you are as a person, none of that shit will help you evolve. When a girl shit tests you and you get a wave of awkwardness spread over you take control in your mind, just say to yourself "why should I really give a fuck man?" like seriously, you're being hijacked by your biochemistry, if you take conscious control - there's absolutely no reason to give a fuck at all.

If you give a fuck about how well you do in your exams, how big your fucking biceps are, how much fucking money you're earning - that's the kind of shit that will help you grow in life until one day you grow so much other people begin giving a fuck about who you are for what you've accomplished. Men do not innately have value unlike women, we don't get given a fuck about for existing, nobody has sympathy for us, everyone is in competition with us and suspicious of us, even we are, of each other. This is one of the fundamental underlying RP truths, you're on your own with this shit so buckle the fuck up, get your head down and stop giving a fuck about all the shit you have no power over.